Saturday, April 05, 2014

Sex life survey

Faerie, Terpsichore, Blondie, and Sunny had this up and I'm sure a few more.  I thought it was very interesting and I wanted to try it too.

A. Have you ever had sex in three or more positions in one session?  I have the urge to answer these questions both before and after I came out to Nick as a spanko. But in the effort not to put you to sleep I’ll just answer for since I’ve been out – so YES, many positions in one session.

B. Have you ever had sex continuously for more than an hour? If you count foreplay, sure.

C. Have you ever devoted an entire day to sex and sexual activity (with time out for eating, etc.)? No, probably not the whole day.

D. Have you ever been so loud having sex that housemates/neighbors commented or complained? No, I’m grateful to have plenty of space between the houses around here and except for the spanking itself, we're not that loud. 

E. Have you ever had your sexual technique/style/skill openly praised by someone?  Yep! When I came out Nick wondered who the hell I was and was very complementary.

F. Have you ever written an explicitly erotic story? I have.

G. Have you ever brought your partner to orgasm using only your hands? I’ve been married thirty years, of course I have.

H. Have you ever licked or sucked on someone else’s feet and/or toes? Yes, I’ve done this too.

I. Have you ever had sex with someone you’re not in a relationship with? No, I haven’t done that.

J. Have you ever had sex simultaneously with two or more people? No, I haven’t done this either.

K. Have you ever had anal sex? I have, but not until I was fifty. It was surprisingly satisfying. 

L. Have you ever gone out in public while wearing an anal plug? I have at Nick command/request/suggestion it was a very interesting experience.

M. Have you ever gotten really turned on by saying or hearing dirty talk? Nope, that really doesn’t do that much for me.

N. Have you ever realized that you are much more sexually open-minded/kinky than most of your previous partners and/or friends? I don’t have any previous partners, but I think I’m more open-minded and kinky than most of my real life friends. Now my blogging friends, that may be different.

O. Have you ever been part of an S/M role play (master/mistress/slave), domination (as the dominant/submissive part), or being victim of pain (such as whipping, caning, hot wax on genitals, nipple clamps/genital clamps etc.)?  Well, of course, I wouldn’t be here otherwise.

P. Have you ever-fantasized about or practiced orgasm control/denial? Yes it’s one of my long time fantasies (wouldn’t care for it in real life). Being denied permission, but unable to control myself and being punished – like I said, fun in fantasy only.

Q. Have you ever tried scissoring? Nope, that one I haven’t tried.

R. Have you ever performed or received oral sex from a man?  Yes, thank you very much.

S. Have you ever performed or received oral sex from a woman? Nope, never tried that either.

T. How old were you the first time you had sex?  Twenty-four, I was a late bloomer.

U. How many sexual partners have you had? One.

V. Have you ever practiced BDSM on yourself (bondage, nipple clamps, hot wax, et cetera)? I have, but totally lost interest in that once Nick was on board to play.

W. Have you ever had sex in front of other people? Just the cats, and that never bothered me. The dog watching, however, made me uncomfortable.

X. Have you ever had a crush on a fellow blogger? Not a crush but I just love the guys that have been part of my life out here, Paul, FD, Bas and some other great guys.

Y. Have you ever had an orgasm without any direct stimulation (not counting dreams)? I don’t think so.

Z. Do you like being called dirty names during sex? No, not my thing.

Written by PK at 5:00 PM



At 1:17 AM, Blogger Cat said...

Sounds like you and Nick are doing good PK. Oh and if you get a chance, devote an entire day to sex and sexual can be lots of fun! ;)

Hugs and Blessings...

At 6:00 AM, Blogger abby said...

You go girl.....after 50 was much more exciting for me too.
hugs abby

At 8:07 AM, Blogger Terpsichore said...

Glad you did to read... Hugs

At 2:19 PM, Blogger Florida Dom said...

Enjoyed the survey. Nice that things became more exciting after 50. And thanks for the shoutout. The feeling is mutual.


At 2:48 PM, Blogger Faerie Wings said...

Your answers actually make me look forward to turning fifty, which is a good thing since it is gonna happen later this year. Yikes!

At 3:18 PM, Blogger Minelle Labraun said...

Good to read! I loved your answers. Don't think I will do this one since I am rather boring in experience! Not boring in thought or reading!

At 4:46 PM, Blogger Leigh Smith aka Sunny Girl said...

Survey says... Interesting answers and on topics we didn't discsuss last weekend. :)

At 10:19 PM, Blogger PK said...

I think we may have to try that someday Cat.

At 10:19 PM, Blogger PK said...

It's so true, and who would have believed it?

At 10:19 PM, Blogger PK said...

Thanks Terps!

At 10:20 PM, Blogger PK said...

It's true FD, fifty has been so much fun I can only imagine sixty would be even better.

At 10:23 PM, Blogger PK said...

Faerie, I think - no I know I've been happier in my fifties than any other time in my life! I hope you'll love it as much.

At 10:24 PM, Blogger PK said...

If I would have written about before I came out I'd have gone to sleep while writing it.

At 10:24 PM, Blogger PK said...

There were topics we didn't discuss last weekend?

At 5:59 AM, Blogger Paul said...

I was poorly yesterday, I missed this, interesting!!!!!
Yes, life gets more interesting the older you get, expectations less, gratitude much more,
Now you have embarrassed me. LOL!
Love and warm hugs,

At 8:42 AM, Blogger PK said...

I've always liked the idea of making a Dom blush!

At 9:28 AM, Blogger Ami Starsong said...

I was poorly yesterday, too, but not with Paul...

It's true that you get a lot more comfortable in your own skin as you get older. I can only assure you that sex after sixty is awe inspiring. Dan says it's our secret weapon.

Many hugs

At 3:39 PM, Blogger Patty said...

Decades 5 & 6 probably the sexiest and most comfortable years of our lives

At 5:50 PM, Blogger Blondie said...

Loved your answers. Glad that you came out to Nick as a spanko - life and sex just gets more interesting. There some of the questions you could still try, at least once, that don't go to far to the norm. I have had to take down pictures of my children at times while being really naughty, it just seemed creepy.
Glad you did this meme.

At 8:44 PM, Blogger PK said...

I don't like you or Paul feeling poorly, I hope you're both better. I'm sure young people don't believe us, but it's true.

At 8:44 PM, Blogger PK said...

Patty, isn't it wonderful that that's true.

At 8:46 PM, Blogger PK said...

Blondie, I hadn't even thought about taking down their pictures, but I might now! I'm still very opened to trying new things. Except for a three way. I just don't think I'd like that at all.


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