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Can you believe it?? Eva is home! They told her at first maybe Sunday, then probably Monday. But today they came in and told her she could go. I think it’s too soon (but no body asked me). Eva and Adam are very happy. Eva wants to sleep in her own bed and I think Adam is pretty happy about that arrangement too. I do know that this girl is a fast healer so more power to her!!

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I am an abandoned woman this weekend. Nick is off with the guys playing golf all weekend. Of course he only leaves two weekends out of the year so I can’t complain. I used to love it, I would park the kids with friends or my parents and enjoy the solitude but now I miss him a lot more. I will be glad when he’s back!

Mollie’s big dance was last night. She looked so beautiful. She got her hair cut and highlighted the day before and had her nails done. Then the afternoon of the dance we went out looking for a black clutch bag and just the right color lipstick. It was fun. She had a good time, I have not been given many details but that is to be expected. I asked her if she danced and she gave me a little smile and said yes.

LJ is still looking for work but he had a really good interview, or audition and he called it – ever the actor, at coffee shop where he would like to work. Everyone please cross your fingers!! The boy needs work, if only to keep me off his back!

A new Wal-Mart opened near us a few weeks ago and today Mollie and I went to check it out. That will teach Nick to leave me alone! We found several things we couldn’t live without including this hair brush – what can I say! I just couldn’t pass it up.

And along those lines, Nick does read my posts (and a lot of others). So he read ‘Letting go’ and for my assignment last week I sent him a few more details. I got back the nicest email! Truly he is such a good man! I had directed him to Bonnie’s last brunch, where she asked about how we felt about being able to feel a spanking the following day.

This is part of the email he sent me,

Be warned however that Mollie will be gone some this summer; I may need to have a general catch up episode. I admit mentally it easier for me to comprehend erotic spankings as foreplay even if discipline is used as a role playing element. It was surprising to see so many at Bonnie actually embrace the harder sessions and next day pain.
Still thinking, the journey continues, enjoying the trip immensely!

I was very encouraged! You all keep pushing this communication thing – someday I might even believe you. I felt pretty good; I had communicated my need at a safe time. Nick was going to be gone this weekend and I knew LJ was going to be around Wednesday afternoon until Mollie got home from babysitting. But as I saw LJ getting ready to leave earlier than I had expected I began to worry about my timing! I mean you don’t tell your man he really needs to spank longer and harder when he is going to have time to give it a try that day! I was about to grab onto LJ and cry “No son wait! You need to spend some time with us!!” But I restrained myself. He had no more than gotten out of the drive way when Nick asked me to accompany him to the bedroom.

He told me this would not be my full make up session but a little practice never hurt. He used his hand, the flyswatter (that stings for such a little thing), the hairbrush, the tawse and my favorite, his soft leather belt. I can’t say he pushed my limits but I was very, very satisfied with the spanking!! And I was very satisfied with what happened after the spanking too!!

We talk a lot out here about which we like better – sting or thud. I have pretty much decided that I am more into thud. I like wood because it encompasses both, you have a great sting at the moment but it also gives that deeper ache. Usually he is fairly slow with a paddle or hair brush and you really get to feel both. I think the belt is the same way. I stings nicely yet when used hard it too can give that lasting effect! I have no love for the tawse! It stings like hell but you have nothing to remember it by an hour later.

I am starting to ramble so I will go now. One more week and I will be a free women for the summer! We will be headed to see Eva and Adam in about 3 weeks and I am so excited! Just pray that I can keep the kids in line for 5 more days!!