I know that many of us have been interested in spanking since childhood. But it seems that most of those of us that are writing are not kids anymore. Are there many people that come out to their SO when they are new in the marriage or do a lot of us wait? I waited 23 years and now I am thinking what a waste of time.
I think it may have to do with becoming a totally confident, competent adult in your own mind before you can have the confidence to hand over control to someone else. Everyone I have read here comes across as an extremely confident adult. Sometimes that is what I am sick of. That is why I want to let someone who loves me and that I trust make me do what I need to. And then see that I do it.