Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Spankings hurt


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I realize this may have been said somewhere before, but I just wanted to remind you. Nick reminded me yesterday. I sure can’t say we have a DD marriage, but things do crop up occasionally. Nick has been very kind about paying attention lately.

One thing I can’t seem to get done in good time in putting away my laundry. Nick does it all, and usually I get mine folded, but then it just sits in the basket. Nick says I have twenty-four hours to put it away.


Sadly even thought I had two extra days it never quite got done. But I did put the basket in the spare room hoping he wouldn’t notice it. He did.  I teased with him, telling him it was Mollie’s fault or at least not my fault, because I forgot. He laughed with me then told me to go get the paddle. Seriously?

I went and got the Blondie paddle – love the paddle, hate the feel. It was shortly after that that I remembered – spankings hurt! And I’m not just being flippant. Something’s happened to me. When we began I could take anything Nick could dish out – he could spank as hard as he could, as long as he could and I could take it and often be asking for more. This was a short spanking and I was begging him to stop. I was glad he didn’t stop just because I was asking him to, but it seriously hurt.

I’ve become a spanking wimp. Has this happened to anyone else?

Written by PK at 6:00 PM

38 comments

38 Comments:

At 3:17 AM, Blogger Roz said...

LoL PK, yep, spankings definitely hurt. I can't seem to be able to take the same level of spanking I used to, but then again, I'm way out of practice.

Hugs
Roz

 
At 5:43 AM, Blogger Minelle Labraun said...

Yep I'm a spanking wimp at times. The thing is when they are spanking for a reason, or are just intense--- it's hard! Ouch! When they play it may be intense but it doesn't hurt 'as much!'
Frankly, though.... It hurts.... Plane and simple! But it's also a need!

 
At 6:19 AM, Blogger Eric51Amy49 said...

Hi PK! We are pretty new at this so while the spankings hurt, it's exciting and exhilarating enough that we're both surprised how much I can take. That said, I'm a totally whiny wimp if I get spanked on a cold day. Makes the whole thing unbearable! And what's with taking the time to do all that laundry but not finishing the last step of putting it away? I ask because I do the same darn thing. I'm so bad, I'll actually get everything out of the basket and will stack it on the dresser rather than open the drawers and put it inside. Crazy! Amy

 
At 8:45 AM, Blogger Leigh Smith said...

For me, it depends on the day, my mood and if the sun is in the 7th house. Maybe it's because we aren't spanked enough.

 
At 8:45 AM, Blogger Florida Dom said...

I am something of a wimp when it comes to giving spankings. When she screams and kicks her legs, I have a tendency to let up even though she doesn't ask me to stop.

FD

 
At 8:46 AM, Blogger Terpsichore said...

I've always been a spanking wimp :-) LOL Then again, perhaps if had them more frequently than every few months I would build up more of a tolerance - would love to find out. :-) Hugs to you! Now put that laundry away (or don't and enjoy the consequences) :-)

 
At 9:51 AM, Blogger ronnie said...

LOL. When you're underspanked and then you get that long overdue one, it definitely does hurt. Your bottom gets out of condition.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

 
At 9:52 AM, Blogger DelFonte said...

My tolerance has slipped due to lack of spankings. It depends on the implement. His hand I can take for a while, the crop a little less, the paddle, I'm not a fan.

 
At 12:00 PM, Blogger an English Rose said...

Hi PK, yes definitely, especially when you are out of the swing of things. I couldn't stand to leave the laundry, that would drive me mad!
love Jan,xx

 
At 12:12 PM, Blogger lindy thomas said...

I reckon sunny has the idea depends on how often you're spanked. If I'm spanked on a regular basis like at the moment, its easy to take and fun. If its only every now and then with huge breaks it is way harder and I'm a wimp.
The moral of the problem "Put your washing away, young lady."
Hugs Lindy

 
At 5:06 PM, Blogger Janey said...

For what it's worth, I think the spare room is fair game for clean washing. Anyway a folded pile is so much better than the clothing decorated carpet of both my boys rooms!
Yes they hurt. I'm sure it's all about the practice .... oh and the wooden paddle!!!

 
At 6:56 PM, Anonymous Deena said...

This is a totally embarrassing question - but - how do you order a paddle without older children knowing where the package is coming from? Or is there someplace you just go to buy it? Jeez, I am so sorry but this is new.

 
At 7:47 PM, Blogger PK said...

Me too! But what can we do about that? Misbehave?

 
At 7:48 PM, Blogger PK said...

I may be the other way around - if it's really for a reason I can stand it. If he's just playing it hurts and I want him to stop.

 
At 7:55 PM, Blogger PK said...

Amy, I'm even worse because Nick does all the rest of the laundry. I think the newness, the excitement an exhilaration really does help in what you can take. Maybe that's what's lacking for me.

 
At 7:57 PM, Blogger PK said...

True, I did hear that Jupiter was aligning with Mars. Maybe that will help. Are the rest of these folks old enough to get this?

 
At 7:58 PM, Blogger PK said...

I'm sure it have to be confusing for the spankers at times. It sure is confusing for me.

 
At 7:59 PM, Blogger PK said...

That's just it - I can't decide whether to put it up or not! I hope you get the chance to find out.

 
At 7:59 PM, Blogger PK said...

An who's fault is that? Not mine!

 
At 8:02 PM, Blogger PK said...

I like my dogging bat the best, but he used it hard at times.

 
At 8:03 PM, Blogger PK said...

I hate anything domestic - cleaning, cooking and laundry - I can stand the mess.

 
At 8:03 PM, Blogger PK said...

Now really - how will that get me spanked more? LOL, see my dilemma?

 
At 8:07 PM, Blogger PK said...

I probably have a little laundry decorating my floor too. I willing to do a little practice.

 
At 8:13 PM, Blogger PK said...

Don't be embarrassed! We're all been there. Most places are really good about plain packaging. I know I've ordered from Blondie before, I think she's safe. Usually it will say on the site that it comes in a plain wrapper. You can also find some paddles at adult stores and there is always wooden spoons and spatulas, belts, paddle ball paddles and other toys, the list is endless. We're an imaginative bunch!!

 
At 8:14 PM, Blogger PK said...

Here's Blondie's sales site https://www.etsy.com/shop/BlondiesPlace

 
At 10:28 PM, Blogger Cat said...

LOL PK...I don't know why this spanking hurt more but sometimes they do. I definitely know how you feel regarding housework...I'm totally allergic to it. :D

Hugs and blessings...Cat

 
At 10:32 PM, Blogger PK said...

Truly I avoid it at all cost! Glad I'm not alone.

 
At 12:11 AM, Blogger Jo said...

PK, in my experience its all about where I am at psychologically and how my hoh dominates me psychologically. One time I wept with just a maintance spanking and another time the spanking was hard and long and I didn't because my resistance was up. It sounds like he took you by surprise with his response which in my case could psychologically do the trick to making the experience more painful, less in your control

 
At 5:09 AM, Blogger Wilma Rubble said...

Well I'm not out of practice, and lately they hurt more than ever. At one point I thought they'd never hurt again. Amy may be on to something, but I think for me it boils down to a new level of vulnerability within the context of our relationship. Maybe everything you have been through health wise, physically, mentally and emotionally have come into play?

 
At 8:48 AM, Blogger Leigh Smith said...

Probably not, but I knew you would. haha

 
At 10:32 AM, Blogger J Girl said...

I lost my tolerance somewhere near six months in and never got it back lol. I'm spanked often and still, can't take it much. I squirm and yelp and twist all over the place. That said, if he takes the time to warm me up I can take more! Still, yeah, they hurt and Jason is a lot like Tom and that damn hairbrush lol.

 
At 8:30 PM, Anonymous Deena said...

Lol! Not sure the hubby is ready for this. It's sure been complicated. But thank you so much for taking the time to reply!

 
At 10:39 PM, Blogger Ella said...

Sam does not believe in warm-ups, but I think I am probably lucky anyway. I get spanked fairly regularly. A lot of happy ones or sexy ones, but at least once a week, there is a serious reminder. What makes me yelp is more than one implement for a single spanking!

Ella Likes "Just Because" Spankings Best

 
At 11:02 PM, Blogger PK said...

Deena, you're right that it can be complicated. Should you ever want to talk you can email me at elisspeaks@yahoo.com I know it can be scary emailing someone you really don't know, but I've been here nearly 10 years and I think people would tell you I'm pretty safe - a little weird maybe, but safe.

 
At 11:04 PM, Blogger PK said...

It's all such a mind game sometimes - a mind game we play with ourselves. But good or bad, I love this lifestyle.

 
At 11:05 PM, Blogger PK said...

I have wondered if it had something to do with my health. I don't think I really feel any differently, but there are changes.

 
At 11:06 PM, Blogger PK said...

Warm ups do make a real difference. I feel most of our spankings are just a little rushed. But he's thinking about it more and that's really nice.

 
At 11:08 PM, Blogger PK said...

Regularly would be nice and he's doing much better about that, but we do still have a problem with privacy on the weekends when we have more energy. Oh well, we're still a work in progress.

 

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