I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, September 25, 2011

I got to meet a fellow blogger!

I told you last week that I was meeting a blogging friend soon. We had lunch yesterday. This was a little different from the other bloggers I’ve met in the past. I’ve only met fellow wives and girlfriends. What we all had in common was our love of spanking and the interest in exploring our submissive side. As I said this was a bit different – I got to meet a dom, Florida Dom to be specific!

We’ve been on line friends for nearly three years now. We probably email a couple of times a month. He would also send me Fantasy Friday stories – he is a gifted writer (and I sure hope he gets back to it). And I’m happy to say he let me talk him into beginning his own site. His work was bringing him into my neck of the wood so we decided to have lunch.

It was a great lunch – FD is as intelligent and interesting as he appears to be on his site. And I love to talk to blogging friends. The conversations are so diverse “How’s the family?” “When did you first realize you were a spanko?” “How’s your job going?” “What do you think of subs wearing collars?” LOL! The whole conversation was like that a truly fun mixture of everyday and spanko talk. He told me about some close friends he’d made on line and we talk about the bloggers we both read. Just not a conversation you have every day.

Some of you might wonder what Nick thought of this meeting. That’s what got me thinking about jealously the other day when I wrote this post. Nick has known FD and I were friends for years. FD told me to be sure to invite Nick if he wanted to come. I did tell Nick he would be more than welcomed, but I also told him I might feel uncomfortable discussing the main topic FD and I have in common. I didn’t really want the men to get together and end up discussing golf or tennis or other guy stuff.

Nick had no problem with me going. His words as I was leaving the house were “Behave yourself.” Knowing what Nick usually means when he says this I asked “You mean I can’t order dessert?” He grinned at me and said “Yeah, well that too.”

I love having a husband who is so understand and trusting. Its fun having blogging friends who are willing to go out of their way to meet a fellow blogger. I got to meet Florida Dom, I have the best husband in the world and Nick did make a comment earlier that while he didn’t mind me going I might just have to pay for the privilege. Sooooo there might me a spanking in my future for all this. Talk about a win, win, win day! I’ll let you know.

19 comments:

  1. How awesome is that!! Does this mean we will meet in two more years? :) And how nice NOT to have a jealous husband...

    Hi, FD!!!! You're a lucky man! :)

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  2. Wasn't that lovely! It must be such a special moment when you meet a virtual friend in person. I'm not sure Ron would be as comfortable with such a meeting.

    Did you have dessert?

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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  3. Wow! I can't imagine having a husband that laid back. But sounds awesome. I like reading FD's blog and I bet you had a great time. My husband would NEVER go for that. I'm amazed..and jealous of that kind of leeway. :)

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  4. way to go PK and FD that was so awesome....its sad that i wont get to meet any of you as im wayyyyy on the other side of the world. NO way in the world would i be allowed to meet a fellow male blogger though.
    Im so glad you both had a great time.....

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  5. Awesome news PK! It's always great to meet someone in person that you've been online friends with for some time. Congratulations to Nick for being confident enough to let you go for lunch with another man and not feel threatened, even if you have to pay for the priviledge!!

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  6. Rogue,
    We can meet anytime you like. I’m a home body but should you find yourself headed this way give me a call!

    Hermione,
    It was lovely. I find meeting blogging friends is a special treat. It includes a level of trust not found in every friendship.

    Remember Stormy, we’re old and have been married forever. I bet it would hurt your feelings if your husband suddenly didn’t care if you did something like this but for Nick and me 30 years of neither of us EVER being interested in anyone else has built such a level of trust we just don’t ever worry.

    Kiwi,
    You do leave off the beaten path for most of us. I just thought of it as meeting a friend. Male or female didn’t matter.

    Emily,
    I thought so.

    Christina,
    I did have a great time and I also think it goes a long way to show the love for and the faith Nick and I have in each other. I probably won’t even have to pay for it either. Sigh…

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  7. PK: I enjoyed reading your account of our lunch. It was so much fun to finally meet after the time we've shared online. And I hope more of your fellow bloggers get to meet you. I can tell them you are as delightful in person as you are on your blog.

    And nice that your husband wasn't jealous about us meeting. Maybe I am naive but the thought never crossed my mind that it might be a problem for you to meet a male blogging friend. You obviously love him to death and it's wonderful the trust you have built up over the years. And sorry to hear you might not even pay for it. LOL.

    Again, I'm glad we finally got to meet.

    FD

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  8. Special. your both very luck to have meet. It sounds like you had a good time.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  9. PK, I was away from my PC most of yesterday.
    I'm so glad that you enjoyed the lunch and visit.
    Yes, Nick is indeed awesome.
    Love and warm hugs,
    Paul.

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  10. Fun! So great you got to meet!

    I always liked that Nick hubby of yours!

    grace

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  11. FD,
    I’m so glad we got to meet too. It never crossed my mind that that Nick would mind but many have expressed surprise that he didn’t. You’re right, I love him to death and I guess that’s why I never thought of it.


    Ronnie,
    We had a great time. The conversation was better than lunch!

    Paul,
    I wish we could be on the same side of the pond sometime so we could have lunch together.

    Grace,
    LOL! I sure do like him myself!


    Oh and Hermione I forgot to answer your question - nope, no dessert!

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  12. I have met kinksters I first got to know on line but so far, no spankos. I am a worried about people finding out about the submissive side of my personality. What would people think about a woman who lets her husband discipline her? Yes, I still worry about those things.
    Happy that you had a great time! ! ! Congrats!

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  13. Dragon's Rose,
    I wrote this post a while back

    http://elisnewbeginnings.blogspot.com/2009/11/you-cant-mean-you-are-not-going-to-be.html

    I think you'd like it. I don't want to be found out either, but I worry less and less as time goes on.

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  14. Very cool. Always fun getting to meet a friend that you've been talking with and getting to know for a long time.

    :)
    ~Todd and Suzy
    americanspankingsociety.com

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  15. Todd and Suzy,
    It's very special to get to meet these like minded people. I know you all are fortunate to get to do this often. I enjoy reading your accounts.

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  16. One of the best things with r/l friends I've met in this 'world' of ours is being able to be our FULL selves with them. That array of conversation you speak of -- it's so cool to be able to do that, isn't it??

    sarah

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  17. Sarah,
    It's wonderful! I didn't realized how much I don't reveal about myself to the people who have known me for year until I was able to be my real self.

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  18. I am so glad you had a nice visit. :-)

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