I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, March 28, 2010

So little time, so many ways to waste it

I really liked this weekend’s Fantasy Friday. I really enjoy hearing from a new writer and sharing this first experience of seeing your work posted and reading comments. It’s a real rush. I do hope to get more stories from KatyLou.

It seems as if one of those stupid games on facebook has taken over my life, a ridiculous waste of time that I really enjoy - of course I get my most joy from working to beat my good friend Connie and her husband. At the time I’m writing this my score is higher than both of them, no telling if that will hold up by the time I post. Of course Mollie has us all beaten. Grace has the overall best score but we’re gaining on her. I seem to be vegging out with this game instead of doing much writing lately. I am still working on my project but I’ve come to a point where I need outside help before I can do much more so I’m in a holding pattern on that.

What else is going on? Hmmmm… Nick and I found some time alone Saturday morning. We had play time planned for when Mollie was away. Of course first he wanted to have a word with me about coming to bed late last night. As I crawled in bed a bit late - usually he’s asleep and doesn’t notice – he stirred and curled around me and whispered “You’re late.”

“Just a little.” I pointed out.

“Fine” he said. “I’ll find something little to use.”

LOL! I love a man who can be a smart ass while still almost asleep. That friggin’ cane is little so I held my breath the next morning. But he was kind to me and used the leather paddle. Fifteen minutes late so fifteen with the leather paddle came my way. But then it was playtime. Nick suggested a card game for high stakes – the winner had their own sex slave for play time. Give me stakes like that and I play hard. And… I won!! Massage, back scratch, good girl, lotions, oral, little vibrator, HMW… I could go on but my mind wasn’t really there for the whole thing. It was a very nice play date.

Four day week coming up next week and then we are taking a fast trip to see relatives and back home to celebrate Easter when Nick’s side and enjoy the rest of spring vacation. For now it’s back to my mindless game. Hope the rest of you out there are busy with more worthwhile tasks – writing perhaps?


  1. PK: Sounds like you're having a great weekend. You must be purring again after all that play time -- on the computer and off. Enjoy.


  2. PK, glad that you had a good time.
    Last night I had half an hour to spare so I played a few games, It doesn't grab me the way it did twelve years ago.
    Have a good week.
    Love and warm hugs,

  3. Interesting game PK.

    Sounds like you had a lovely weekend and a short week coming up great :)

    Please, what is HMW? I notice Connie used it as well.

    Thanks PK.


  4. grinnnnnnnnnnn I'm already finding out myself facebook is addictive... haven't tried that game though... if I read this I'd better stay away..lol...

    hugsssssss, Lessa

  5. I can't do games or facebook. I just don't have time! I spend my free time wasting time on so many other mindless adventures that I just can't see devoting anymore time to wasting time.


  6. So, your gaining on me huh? We'll just have to see about that!

    I just love your smart-ass hubby!


  7. So how are we all doin' with the game?

  8. FD,
    I do enjoy being lazy and playing so yes I'm in a pretty good mood.

    You are a smart man to be able to play and not get hooked.

    I an Hitachi Magic Wand - google it if you don't know what it is. It could bring an orgasm from the dead!

    It's a load of fun, and a ton of frustration.

    Oh Theresa,
    I guess we all have our priorities. LOL!

    I love my smart ass man too! I see Connie has beaten you too. I need some of your secrets!!

    I don't wish to discuss it.

  9. I love how you refer to your in-law's as "nick's side." Facebook has taken lots of my precious time, too. Congrats on winning your card game. Sounds like you used your winnings well!