This is a sad post. Don’t
feel you have to read today. I just have to have somewhere to get this out.
When I was teaching, I worked
with a fellow teacher who had a daughter, Sherry. Sherry taught third grade like
Mollie. We often compared our daughter’s experiences. Yesterday morning, we
found out that Sherry had fallen down the stairs at her condo and broken her
neck. A friend found her dead Tuesday evening. I can’t stop thinking about her,
she was only in her early thirties. She was friends with LJ and Collin. I can’t
stop thinking about them, about her mom and even about her students. I’m sure
many of these little eight-year-olds have never experienced death before. It’s just
so shocking and sad.
Then in the afternoon comes
the news of the school shooting in Florida. There is nothing I can say about
that – it’s too horrifying.
But two interviews have
stayed on my mind. One mother was interviewed who said she had four sons at
that school. She had heard from three of them, but not the forth.
Then I heard a phone
interview with a seventeen-year-old boy. He told what he had seen and then they
asked him how he was. His answer was, “I’m fine. I’m with my mom.”
That got to me and I finally
started crying. He knew he was safe, he was fine, because he was with his mom.
I’m praying for all the
families and friends who lost loved one yesterday. The ones I know and the ones
I don’t.
PK,
ReplyDeleteYou are up very late. I, too, cannot sleep considering the horrible news. I am sorry about the death of the person you knew. I am frightened for a country which offers “thought and prayers” when what we need is policy and change concerning guns. How very frightening for all the young people and their teachers.
Try to get some sleep tonight. I am thinking of you, ny dear friend.
Meredith
Thank-you Meredith. I could write a book on what I think of the way our country is going. But I won't.
Deletei'm so sorry for your loss. :(
ReplyDeleteThank you, Fondles.
DeleteHello PK (and Meredith),
ReplyDeleteI also cannot sleep. The news of the day is heartbreaking and impossible to fix. This world needs a giant Mom to wrap her arms around it and bring some peace to so many in turmoil. Extremely sorry to hear of all loss; especially so close to your heart and home.
Amy
A loving mom for would be a great help now.
DeletePK, I sm so very sorry for your loss and deeply saddened. The shooting is simply horrendous. Will common sense ever prevail in relation to guns?
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you. Sending huge cyber (((hugs)))
Roz
I worry about my friend losing her daughter. In answer to your question - I don't see it happening any time soon.
DeletePK my thoughts are with you at this sad time with the loss of your friend. What is the world coming to with all these shootings. I'm so glad we have tight gun laws over here. Thinking of all my American friends
ReplyDeleteHugs Lindy xx
If only our country was as intelligent as yours.
DeleteOh PK, I am so sorry to hear the sad news about your friend. My thoughts are with you.
ReplyDeleteI saw the pictures on TV about the Florida shooting, it's horrible. Something has to be done about your gun policies.
Love and hugs,
Ronnie
xx
I am sharing your grief and some anger. I am so very sorry that a sudden accident took a life way too soon. I watched some of it in horror yesterday...when will we be brave enough to really say ENOUGH with the guns...
ReplyDeletehugs abby
I think that question will be a long time in coming.
DeletePK so sorry for the loss of your friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with those in Florida.
ReplyDeleteSue-B
Thanks Sue-B. I'm afraid there is too much sadness to go around.
DeleteI am so sorry for your loss. And for the loss in the Florida school. It is heartbreaking. My heart goes out to all the families. Big hugs to you
ReplyDeleteThanks Terps, I know all school shootings scare all parents.
DeleteOh PK! <3 How very sad to hear about your young lady friend! I can't even imagine... My heart hurts for you all, her family and friends. xoxo
ReplyDeleteAnother mass shooting in a school, where teachers, children and parents expect to be safe each day. It is beyond horrific!!!! Lindy has it right Downunder. They changed to strict gun control there, after the same, and there has been no further incidents to date. We don't need a %$#$%@ wall!!!! We need serious gun control, right now, so that weapons like that stay out of the hands of the wrong people. All so sad...
Many hugs and love sent your way,
<3 Katie xoxo
Amen, sister! Why is it so clear to all of us and and so hard for the government.
DeleteI do not have words to express the sadness you must be feeling. Hugs. The tragedy in Florida hits to all our hearts deeply.
ReplyDelete--Baker
The two incidents have combined and it just feel overwhelming.
DeleteOh PK, how truly awful .That poor girl , so young, what a tragedy. And as for Florida, I cannot imagine how it must be, so terrible. I am so thankful that over here access to guns is so much more limited,
ReplyDeletelove Jan,xx
Yes your country is another intelligent one. We seem to be going nuts over here and it's getting worse.
DeletePK, so sorry to hear about your friend’s daughter, it’s always shocking when a young life is cut short.
ReplyDeleteI woke up to the news of the latest shooting this morning. One person commented that it is now America’s new normal. How can that be?
Rosie xx
It can't be. We can't let it be.
DeleteI try not to think about my grands, or daughter or SIL for that matter having to experience these situations - but it is oh so real. School used to be one of those safe places, but there are no safe places anymore.
ReplyDeleteI understand what you mean - Mollie is there too. So scary.
DeletePK, so sorry to hear about your friend's daughter. My heart goes out to you and her family.
ReplyDeleteI saw pictures on our news about the shooting. Something must be done about your gun laws.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Your words made me gasp out loud. How horrible for her family and friends. I'm so sorry for the grief you are experiencing.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Leigh. There are no safe places anymore. I join the millions who are praying for all involved.
Rosie Dee
Yesterday was a horrible day. I think prayer is wonderful, but I also want something done.
DeleteI'm so sorry - for your personal loss - that's so tragic. And Florida, which is clearly a loss for all of us. I cried about the daughter who was texting from inside the school at one point and kept telling her mom to stay away -to stay safe. The mom was like NO, I'm your mother, I'm out here waiting for you. That one makes me cry right now.
ReplyDeleteOlivia, my daughter sent me a FB message with several text kids and parents had exchange. It tore at my heart.
DeletePK, I was so sorry to hear about your friend's daughter. Tragic.
ReplyDeleteI saw pictures of the Florida shooting, when will it end. Gun laws needs changing.
Love and hugs,
Ronnie
xx
PK, I understand your shock and grief with the death of the young woman you knew. I have been to 4 funerals now for former students, and it never stops being gut wrenching. At Christmas, I try to visit each grave so they know they are not forgotten.
ReplyDeleteI did not have the television on at all yesterday, and Sam only watched a movie. I did not find out until later this morning. It will never be normal. My heart breaks every time it happens.
Ella
It's so different than losing someone who you fill has lived a long life. When they are so young it's nearly impossible to accept.
DeletePK, I'm so sorry about your friend.
ReplyDeleteThe strength of the teen survivors in Florida gives me hope about seeing some laws providing better regulation of guns. Those kids seem to be developing momentum for a movement.
EL