I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
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Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Pissed me off!

This is why I love my blog.  Nick made me so mad a little while ago. I was asking him about something – nothing of any importance in anyways. I was in the other room and we couldn’t hear one another too well, but he knew I was coming right back. I repeated something because I hadn’t heard exactly what he’s said and he yelled at me. 



I went from totally calm, in a pleasant mood to furious – if looks could kill kind of thing I’d be looking for a new husband right now. I hate and despise being yelled or snapped at. There is no reason for adults to yell at other adults unless you are warning someone of impending danger – things like ‘timber’, ‘look out for the shark’, or ‘tornado’s coming’ are some of the few exceptions.

I’ve given Nick permission to spank my ass any time he feels it’s necessary or anytime he simply wants to – but I’ve never consented to being yelled at, and I won’t ever. Had I been the spanker in the family and he yelled (snapped at me) over something so trivial I would have pulled him from his chair and he wouldn’t have sat comfortably the rest of the evening, and I would have felt so much better for it.

As it was I said in a deadly, calm voice, “My apologies, I don’t hear perfectly either.” And that was the last thing I said to him for quite a while and I stayed in my writing room and muttering and saying ugly things and writing this post. Grrrr… do whatever else you want to me – but do not raise your voice to me!

See how great blogging is – it felt so good to dump on you. I’m not the least bit mad anymore. I just wanted to vent while I was pissed and with that I got it all out of my system. Thank you very much, Nick would thank you too if he had any idea I’d been mad.

22 comments:

  1. So happy you were able to dump your anger here PK and not keep it bottled up. Really think you should have told him that if you had been the spanker, he would not be sitting easily...might have given him some ideas...or at least made him realize what he'd done. Sending positive energy that tomorrow is a better day.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. That's true - but he wouldn't have had a clue what I was mad about. He was never mad, just shouted as a reflex and never thought about it again. Sigh… some things you just can't explain.

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  2. Sorry this happened PK. Glad you have this place to vent rather than stuff the anger down and have the situation perhaps deteriorate. Glad the anger has left you. Hope tomorrow is a better day.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. The anger was intense, but didn't last long. Venting is so nice.

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  3. Feel free to vent away!. Does Nick know he is risking life and limb everytime he yells at you?
    love Jan,xx

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    1. No he doesn't - but then it very rarely happens. Maybe that's why it always takes me off guard.

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  4. PK,
    I am right there with you. It just isn't necessary. ABK is my motto.Meredith

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    1. Glad you're there! Now tell me what's ABK?

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    2. I wanted to ask that too!!

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  5. Venting helps us purge the negative. What a great place to do it! You know we understand perfectly!

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    1. I know you do, I wasn't mad for long. But blogging helps sooo much!

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  6. Vent away my friend. Better than bottling it up.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. It sure is! Helps enormously.

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  7. So glad you feel better after writing your post.

    Hugs,
    Kathy

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    1. I always feel better when I post - even when I'm not mad.

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  8. Your blog is a good place to vent and feel better.

    FD

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    1. It's great. Next best things to visiting with all of you in the back yard or neighborhood bar.

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    2. ABK,,,always be kind

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  9. Me too, hate being yelled at!

    P

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    1. I know there are more of us. Spanking is one thing, but yelling - NO!

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