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Monday, September 10, 2018

Simple Joys

I know some people love activity in their lives – all the time. They like to go places, do things and part of me envies them. But that’s not me. I live more of a laid back lifestyle. I’m very content with small things.




I have big joys all over the place. A wonderful husband and two fantastic kids top the list. I have a comfortable home, plenty of food and money to pay the bills. Actually the internet doesn’t have enough space for me to list all my joys, my blessing. But I sometimes I like to think of the simple joys.

Here are a few of my simple joys – 

·   Sleeping until I wake up. No one urging me to get up, nowhere I have to be to on time, no alarm clock. Just me and the sun. If I want to roll over for another ten minutes there’s no reason not to.

·   Going to the bathroom with no help. Anyone who doesn’t see this as a true joy has never taken care of someone you love who can no longer manage it. Be aware of this joy while you have it.

·   Having Mollie text or call. Having LJ or Colin ‘like’ something I’m put on Facebook (that way I know they’re alive and well). Hearing Nick pull into the carport.

·   Getting an email or a text from a friend just to talk/visit.

·   Heading out into my bright, sunny writing room each morning. There’s a ceiling fan giving me a breeze in the summer, and a fireplace to give warmth in the winter. My two cat in their favorite spots to keep me company. I sit with a hot cup of coffee and watch the forest behind our home through big, tall windows as I let story idea roam through my head until one comes to the forefront. Then I write and write – what joy.
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I’d love to know what some of your simple joys are. Blog if you have one or leave me a comment.
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27 comments:

  1. Hi PK, what a lovely post, I love your list! There is nothing like the simple joys in life, like curling up next to the heat and watching a favourite show.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I can tell you're coming off winter - we're not after heat right now. But I know soon I'll be doing this very same thing.

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  2. Anonymous7:47 AM

    Love your post. I love drinking coffee and watching the birds at the feeder. I love to walk in the woods and enjoy God's beautiful creation. So many simple things I enjoy. Sue-B

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    1. This sounds so peaceful. It's nice seeing you here again.

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  3. Great post. Simple joys - waking up each morning to seeing the humming birds at the feeder. So many more but at 6:15 am those two come to a mind that is not fully awake.

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    1. I wouldn't be this coherent at 6:15. Again, the joy of sleeping in.

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  4. Hi PK, nice post. Snuggling in bed in the morning with hubby and my kindle, knowing there is nothing to rush up for. A hug from my Grands, I love you from my sons. There are so many simple joys
    love Jan, xx

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    1. These all sound wonderful - I do envy the hugs from the Grands. Someday maybe.

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  5. This is a lovely list of joys, PK you are obviously blessed.
    One of the little things that brings me joy is spending time together as a family, being under one roof and enjoying a rousing game of cards or a favourite board game. Cuddling on a Saturday morning when no one has to be up, a frothy coffee with a dear friend, and the list goes on and on. I am also very blessed. :)

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    1. You do sound blessed. I'm grateful that so many of us out here are.

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  6. Anonymous3:48 PM

    PK,
    I so easily picture you entering your writing room all smiles ready to go. A simple joy is Jack serving me my frothy coffee in the morning as we enjoy our vista. Heaven on earth!
    Meredith

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    1. Sounds like a lot of us like that first cup of coffee and our view.

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  7. PK

    My joys are simple...my man surprising me by taking a week off....my friends and family to spend time with.

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    1. Those sound like wonderful joys to me.

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  8. Ahh, simple joys.... I have so many! My Scotsman home. Conversations with my kids! Reminiscing with family! Drawing or painting!
    Oh that first cup of coffee, and a martini on the weekend!

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    1. Our families are always bring us joy! You draw, I write - whatever works or us.

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  9. Anonymous7:54 PM

    PK,
    I am with all you coffee gals. Nothing like that first sip or two on an empty stomach.... yum!
    I am thankful for friends that support me during difficult times.
    I most grateful for my husband.

    Sweet post! Hugs! Windy

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    1. You have some great joys here. And to think I never drank coffee until I was 50 years old!

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  10. I can see you in your writing room.

    So many simple joys in life.

    Waking up to a brand new day with P. The pleasure of sitting outside with my morning cup of tea and watching the birds.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. I like that so many of us can slow down in life enough to recognize these simple joys and appreciate them.

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  11. Love your list, PK. Our alarm goes off at 5.45am every day except Sunday, so I’m grateful for the Sunday morning lie-in. I’m another coffee drinker, can’t function until my second cup.
    Rosie xx

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    1. It didn't kill me getting up for work, but this sleeping in is a joy I'd never thought about.

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  12. I love that you take the time to appreciate your blessings. I thank God every day for the life I have. I'm content with a simple life and a man I adore. I've lived long enough to see people's lives change in a moment and so I try to be grateful today for all I have, especially my family and friends.
    Rosie Dee

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    1. I think being aware of how lucky we are in a blessing in itself.

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  13. Deena9:52 PM

    Such a nice thing to think about. On my list would be a quiet house, grocery shopping alone, an email, text, or call from a friend. These can truly make my day. Thanks for the reminder that it doesn't have to be "big" to be joyful.

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    1. All the joys you mentioned sound wonderful to me too. Isn't it strange how grocery shopping changes when you're with someone?

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  14. love your small joys...quiet time doing nothing, receiving a text/email/phone call/letter from my friends and family, being able to move, to see, to hear, to smell, and to feel...oh so many... :-) Hugs

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