I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
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Monday, April 10, 2017

Ronnie is crazy

* I didn't know what Ronnie was posting today, but I find the timing amusing! Go by and see what she has to say about canes!

Please know, I just love Ronnie. We’ve been friends for years. I love reading about the way she and P live their lives.  Their relationship has just about the perfect balance of fun and discipline spankings. Why would I say my dear friend is crazy?

It’s her professed love of the f*ing cane!





I never even liked canes when I fantasied about this life style. Once I experienced one in real life – thanks to my dear friend Ronnie sending me one, (thanks Ronnie) I knew I’d been right in my disregard.

This comes up today because Nick used our damn cane (again Ronnie, thanks) this Saturday and my feelings for the cane are the same or possible more negatively. Really, Ronnie, WTF?

All right griping and complaining aside, used sparingly the cane might actually be a deterrent for me if Nick would just be consistent. He wants me to eat healthier, exercise more and in general be healthier. He’ll make vague suggestion, “You ought to…”, “You should try…” and in a normal world in a vanilla relationship that would be fine. I just wish that for once, about one or two things in particular, he would be a bad ass and really lay down the law and be consistent about  enforcement. I have no idea if it would work, but nothing else has and I would so like to give it a try.

Ronnie, I do love you dearly – despite your weird attraction to this implicating of torture. But should ours ever break – by getting caught in a door or some pruning shears or something, please don’t feel you have to replace it.

17 comments:

  1. Hi PK, Well this is timely. Just go and read Ronnie's blog this morning.. She is going into the cane business, and no this is not a joke!!! I am with you , she won't be getting any custom from me , much as I love her
    love Jan, xx

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    1. I wish her many customers if they go through with it - as long as Nick isn't one of them.

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  2. Ronnie supplying canes - makes sense doesn't it?
    Rosie xx

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    1. She would be the one I would suspect could do it best.

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  3. Oh no poor PK. I've not experienced a cane and will not be purchasing one from Ronnie either. I'll stick to leather.
    Maybe your cane could be hidden in the garden to prop up a plant or something.

    Hugs Lindy xx

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    1. LOL, not a bad plan for the cane.

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  4. Hi PK,the timing of your post and Ronnie's is funny. I'm with you on the cane...no thank you.

    Good on Nick for stepping up, but I so wish he could give you the consistency you need.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I really wish he would / could too. But the cane would only be for severe infractions!

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  5. Remember one thing about the timing - here are no accidents so maybe Nick has to keep that cane handy - it might remind both of you.

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    1. He won't think of it again for another six months - I feel pretty safe.

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  6. PK, LOL. What a coincidence, funny and no I'm not crazy I just love the cane and here was me going to send Nick a new one when (if) we get set up.

    It's a fine red line (pun intended), cross it and fear factor can provide some memorable occasions and you can trust me on that one:)

    Come on, there must be someone other than me who likes the cane.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. I don't see anyone joining in to support you , lol.xx

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    2. Fine red line my ass! LOL! I hope it all works well for you in your possible new venture. But I think all canes should be kept in England. And as English Rose has accurately pointed out - I don't see tons of supporters here.

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  7. I think the willingness to give and receive the cane is a sign of real intimacy and trust. I'm so envious.

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    1. I trust Nick completely! But the sting is still wicked!

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  8. LOL PK...the timing of your posts cracked me up. Happy Nick stepped up but sorry it was with the cane. Ya know, I'm always looking for good kindling for my burn pile. ;)

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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  9. have never experienced the cane so I cannot say...but I am guessing I would side with you PK, though I truly do love Ronnie's stories of the cane, I imagine the real thing might be too much for me :-) Hugs

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