If you
could pick, which of your fictional husbands to have for a day--Tom, Steve, Andy
or Cal, which would you choose and why?
--Baker
Baker questions was definitely one
of my favorites. Of course for real life I’m keeping Nick. Whether I’m
complaining a little about him or singing his praised, he’s the only man for
me.
But for a day or two in a fantasy
world which of these fictional husbands would I choose. Hmm… very different
men. There are thing that attract me to each. They are all good men, but who
would I choose? No question about it.
Tom
I suppose because I know, I know how much he loves his wife. He
adores her, he wants to be with her. He wants to know what she’s doing, what
she’s thinking, he wants to talk with her. When they go out he watches over her,
they hold hands and he’s always aware of her.
If he tells her to do or not do
something, it’s because he honestly feels that best for her and he’s going to
back up what he’s said. She never has to wonder if she’s in trouble – if she
goes against Tom, she is.
I know I could not be married to
a man like Tom in real life. I'd probably feel smothered. And probably several of my friends would disagree
with my choice completely. But for a fantasy for a day or so, he’s my choice.
For those of you who have read about all these men, which would be your choice? I know we’d each choose our own husband, but if you had to pick one for just a few fantasy days…
For those of you who have read about all these men, which would be your choice? I know we’d each choose our own husband, but if you had to pick one for just a few fantasy days…
Hi PK,what an awesome question and I love your answer. I think it would be a toss between Tom and Cal for me :)
ReplyDeleteHugs
Roz
They are very much alike. Good men.
DeleteGood question for you. I knew it would be Tom. It would be Tom for me as well.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Ronnie
xx
He always reacts like I want him to - I wonder why?
DeleteTom is one popular guy..he gets my vote also. hugs abby
ReplyDeleteHe's a great guy.
DeleteDitto! I love Tom almost as much as I love Cassie. I don't think I would feel smothered, although I would surely hate if I was ever grounded. He is just the ultimate dominant male.
ReplyDeleteElla Swooning
I honesty wanted a relationship like this in the beginning. As I realized it would never happen, I became more independent and I'm comfortable with that now.
DeleteTom - but not for the long run because he's a bit too much. I love how he loves her, but it would be like being under a microscope all the time and I couldn't handle that.
ReplyDeleteI'm surprised you picked him for the short term. There's hope for you yet!
DeleteThank you for answering my question, PK! I think Tom gets my vote as well (if he was younger). Thanks!
ReplyDelete--Baker
I understand, but if you want this in a younger version, you might want Cal.
DeleteDefinitely great question, PK...my choice would probably be Tom also although I think Cal would be a close second. Tom is a bit more intense than Matthew was but not much...as with Cassie, if I went against Matthew I knew the price. :)
ReplyDeleteHugs and blessings...Cat
Tom and Cal are so very much alike. But I've known Tom a lot longer.
DeleteTom makes a nice fantasy but I would bristle under that reality. I suppose Steve would be my first choice for long term. Fun question.
ReplyDeleteI understand completely. I'm glad Steve got a vote. He's a really good guy. He keeps Sue mostly in line and quite happy these days without going overboard.
DeleteGreat question, PK! :) Would be Tom for me, for sure. But like others said, just for a little bit of time. He might be a tad too strict for me...
ReplyDeleteHard to decide! I love all of your men folk characters! I love Love LOVE all of your characters period!!! Many hugs,
<3 Katie
We all have submissive desires and tendencies, but I do enjoy the writer part of having Tom do exactly what I want. He's a honey. And it may sound funny, but I really don't think of him as that strict.
DeleteI love Tom (I think you know that). That ivory brush and his quite harsh use of it, not so much.
ReplyDeleteSteve has become a man I could respect but the way he put up with Sue's attitude would have probably pushed me away early on. I would have stayed married to him but I want to adore my man and I can't adore a man who allows himself to be disrespected that way. I love that he finally stood up like a man!
Rosie Dee