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Tuesday, March 14, 2017

A trip and a meme

I’m heading to a writing conference this Friday and Saturday. These conferences aren’t really my thing, but I have a friend who enjoys them and she invited me along. I’ve turned her down several times. But this one is being held in Cassie’s town, where I have relatives I usually only get to see once a year. It gives me a chance to walk along Cassie’s river and sit on her deck. My cousin even looks a lot like Cassie – I believe that’s all they have in common, but still.

I thought I’d put up Abby’s meme this week because they are just fun to do.

1. Early bird or night person? 
Definitely a night owl. I hate to give up the day for some reason. But I love sleeping late.

2. Vanilla, chocolate or strawberry? 
Chocolate cake, strawberry ice-cream and the fragrance of vanilla.

3. Summer or Winter?
I have always said Summer, because I was off in the summer. Now I like it all. 

4. Hearty breakfast or just coffee? 
I love to go out for a hearty breakfast when we’re on vacation, I usually just have a light breakfast at home. Coffee is only for sitting down writing!

5. Bright or muted colors?
I had my classroom filled with bright colors in my home and want I wear it’s more muted. 

6. Pie or cake? 
Few things in the world are better than a delicious moist cake! Devil’s Food with a white frosting  is at the top of my list!

7. Seaside vacation or fun in a big resort or city? 
I think I’d prefer a seaside vacation with a few restaurants you could walk to and maybe a few shops. I’d never pick a city for a vacation. I go to NYC to see LJ at times, but I don’t like cities.

8. Dog or cat lover?
I do love them both, but for us right now cats are my favorite. We can leave food and water and down and be gone for a few days. I also like them cause they are softer when they walk on you and when they sleep in our bed. 

9. Short or long hair?
Pretty short. 

10. Leather or wood?
I don’t hate wood, but leather is always better. 

11. Baseball or football fan? 
Baseball/football – there’s a difference?

12. Spa day or a day shopping with a friend? 
I’ve never had a spa day, don’t know if I would like it or not. The only people I can really shop with are my sister and Mollie. I like being with them!

13. Live concert or movie?
I’ll take the movie – I do all I can to avoid crowds. 

I don't mind a few folks

14. Wrap a gift with paper and bow or use a gift bag? 
I use both, but if I’m getting a gift, I always like tearing off paper.
15. Help build a snowman or stay inside and make the hot chocolate? 
I’ll probably make the hot chocolate while I watch it snow.

16. Four seasons or California climate?
Four seasons for sure. 

17. Driver or passenger? 
I don’t like driving. I see cars as a place to sleep. That’s really frowned on when you’re the driver.

18. Pajamas or a night gown?
I don’t wear either – I started sleeping in the nude the day I came out to Nick. 

19. Bake a cake or go to your favorite bakery? 
Bake? Me? But I know a great bakery!

20. Theater night...musical or drama
I rarely go to the theater I think I’d like them both.


  1. Hi PK, Hope you have a fun weekend, nice answers, I love a nice cake too ;)
    love Jan, xx

    1. I want some of the cake now!

  2. Hi PK, hope you have a wonderful time at the conference and visiting relatives.

    Enjoyed reading your answers, many of my answers would be the same. I'm a night owl too and love your answer to No 2 :)


    1. I hope I'll like the conference, know I'm looking forward to the family time.

  3. Hi PK Have a fun weekend at the conference and visiting relatives. If you see Cassie say Hi from me.

    Loved all your answers to Abby's meme. That cake would be delicious with a hot chocolate.
    Hugs Lindy xx

    1. I'm getting hungry just looking at it. I always see Cassie.

  4. PK, Have a great weekend. Loved reading your answers. "Coffee is for writing", I like that.


    1. That really is the only time I drink coffee. I just grab a cup on the way to my writing room.

  5. Enjoy your weekend and thanks for joining it...I thought I was the only person who had not been to a spa day...hugs abby

    1. Thanks for doing this on Abby. Spa's not really on my wish list.

  6. Loved your meme today. The mug of hot chocolate on the window sill was just up my alley.

    You will have to tell us if you can feel Cassie is with you as you walk along that river.

    Love and Hugs,

    1. I always feel Cassie, but I especially love walking in her yard.

  7. I'm going to do this meme too.
    Have fun this weekend.

    1. I'm looking forward to your answers.

  8. Thanks for sharing, PK...love learning more about my blogland friends. Hope you have a good time this weekend.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

    1. I'm looking forward to the weekend. Hope I learn something at the conference.

  9. I love reading memes, thanks for sharing PK. Have a great time in Cassie's territory and enjoy the workshop.
    Rosie xx

  10. Loved your answers! I'll come and bake cakes with you one day! You'll have fun, you'll see! Enjoy your workshop. I love them.


  11. Fun answers :-) enjoyed reading Hugs to you