Sunday, September 18, 2016

A question for you




I’m curious about something and since I feel blogland hold the answers to most of my questions I’m here to ask.

When you orgasm, do you have one specific thought or fantasy that you use over and over to pushes you over the edge?

I know some women orgasm easily, but for others it’s much harder to achieve. Sadly, I fall in the second category. When I’m close I do have that one scenario that often gets me there.

You are most welcomed to share specifics, but mostly I just want to know if I’m the only one who does this.


Written by PK at 6:00 PM

22 comments

22 Comments:

At 5:31 AM, Blogger Roz said...

Hi PK, I do sometimes indulge in a thought or fantasy to push me over the edge. Usually not the same fantasy each time, but the theme is the same :)

Hugs
Roz

 
At 7:59 AM, Blogger Eva said...

Nope. You're not the only one. ;)

 
At 11:29 AM, Blogger Leigh Smith said...

Nope, not always but sometimes. It's all versions of the same one.

 
At 3:13 PM, Blogger Minelle Labraun said...

Absolutely! And it's quite visual for me!

 
At 5:08 PM, Blogger Emerging Lurker said...

It depends. If it's a self-service orgasm, I have my go-to fantasy with minor variations. If it's an orgasm with my husband, a wider variety works, I think because I am less in my head when I am with him. EL

 
At 5:46 PM, Blogger Cat said...

You are definitely not alone, PK. I read somewhere than a man's orgasm is more physical while a woman's is more mental...not sure I totally agree with that but can see some validity in it. Towards the end of my relationship with my ex and then the guy I dated prior to Matthew, I sometimes had to fantasize a bit to push over. And of course, since it is self-service around here, definitely have several fantasies I use...rotate them depending on my mood. :D

Hugs and blessings...Cat

 
At 6:52 PM, Blogger abby said...

Seems like I am in the minority here...I do not....when I am away and on my own..not that is a different...sexy...story.
hugs abby

 
At 10:16 PM, Blogger PK said...

Thanks Roz, this was something I'm curious about.

 
At 10:17 PM, Blogger PK said...

Good, I hate being alone.

 
At 10:17 PM, Blogger PK said...

Interesting.

 
At 10:18 PM, Blogger PK said...

Hmm... its more auditory for me.

 
At 10:18 PM, Blogger PK said...

That would make sense, I wish I could be less in my head.

 
At 10:20 PM, Blogger PK said...

It's definitely true that it's more mental for women. Mine hardly ever changes.

 
At 10:21 PM, Blogger PK said...

Again, interesting! I usually need the thought to push me over alone or not.

 
At 12:05 AM, Blogger lindy thomas said...

PK I'm joining your side. I need my fantasy to push me over every time. If I'm distracted by anything around me, like neighbours being noisy I can't get in the zone.
Hugs Lindy

 
At 8:16 AM, Blogger Hermione said...

Absolutely! I have to have that fantasy playing in my mind or nothing happens.

Hugs,
Hermione

 
At 8:36 PM, Blogger PK said...

I'm like you nearly any distraction pulls me away. My fantasy really helps.

 
At 8:37 PM, Blogger PK said...

So glad I'm not alone.

 
At 6:58 PM, Blogger Meredith Malloy said...

PK,
I often have the same memory......... dominant Jack and submissive me, again and again. What can I say!
Meredith

 
At 7:59 PM, Blogger PK said...

I sure do understand!

 
At 10:12 AM, Blogger Terpsichore said...

I live in my imagination...you are not alone... :-) Hugs

 
At 6:44 PM, Blogger Emerging Lurker said...

I hear a little weed is excellent for that.

 

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