I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
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Sunday, February 22, 2015

Practicing being vocal

I’ve had an amazing weekend. Friday evening, after going out to dinner, Nick decided it was time for me to practice my vocalization. As I’ve asked him he starts out with me dressed, but he used the horrible OCW – the Orange County Whapper that we picked up on our trip to California when we went to visit some blogger friends.  It’s the hard leather paddle pictures in my masthead. That thing hurts like hell despite the fact that it’s leather – I think it’s a beautiful paddle, but it is scary.

He had me pretty well lit up even though I still had my pants on. Then he took the pants down and did a little nice rubbing and with a few pats told me I needed to do some thinking and planning. This was also something I’d ask him to do. I like a little time, a reprieve in the spanking to let me think and focus. Now I know he wanted me to do some focusing on exercise and healthy eating. As he stepped out of the room for the moment I was more focused on the OCW. I didn’t want him to use in on the bare, so I slipped it under some pillow on the bed.

When he came back he used his belt. I love his belt. I think it’s because over the years it is the only thing that has ever left bruise – it’s rare, but it’s only with the belt.  He finished up and there was some hugging and sweet talk and then he started to put things away. But he couldn’t find the OCW. I had to confess. Damn, and I was so close to a clean get away! Evidently hiding the paddle when I was supposed to be thinking about other things was a no-no and I got several hard pops with it before he put it away.

Anyway, it was a very nice Friday. Late that evening I asked him if he’d take me to see 50 Shades. Having heard a few reviews I decided to see for myself. I’ll give you my review tomorrow.

20 comments:

  1. Hi PK, sounds like a wonderful Friday. Happy for you! I convinced Rick to see 50 Shades on Saturday also. Having read the books I quite enjoyed it, but wouldn't give it rave reviews. Wasn't totally convinced by Jamie Dornan either. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I do think all spankos should see it. Great move or not, if we don't defend against some of the things that will be said about it, who will?

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  2. So you did get more vocal PK? If you're gonna hide the OCW, ya need to hide it when it's not in use and then if he goes to look for it at a later date, you can 'forget' where you put it. ;)

    Looking forward to your review of 50 Shades.

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. I know, I know - it was a rookie mistake.

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  3. Hi PK, I agree with cat, you need to choose a more suitable moment for hiding stuff! Enjoy the film
    love Jan,xx

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    1. I will do better in the future. I promise.

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  4. Now is the time to hide that paddle! Okay--run and put it away! Shhh now. No telling!
    Looks like you had fun and even concentrated on thinking about your health!

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    1. It's just that he always puts the larger paddles and things that don't fit in our box away and I don't know exactly where everything is.

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  5. Oh, my friend, take it from me...hiding implements is never a good idea! I love leather, but from the looks of that thing, i am not mentioning it to Master!
    hugs abby

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    1. It's hard leather - very hard, no give at all. But the handle is gorgeous! Wish we could hang it as a wall decoration.

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  6. so glad you had a fun friday :-) look forward to your review

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    1. It was fun, Saturday was too.

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  7. Happy for you. Did you get the resent emails?

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    1. Thanks, I hope our email problems can get worked out.

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  8. PK,
    Friday has turned in the best of days.
    Meredith

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    1. Fridays are! For many reasons.

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  9. A great start to your weekend. Happy for you.

    Look forward to your review on FSOG.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. You know me - I have an opinion on everything.

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  10. PK, hiding a paddle geesh (shaking my head in total dismay) Never, never, never hide a paddle! It always ends poorly.

    So glad you had a good weekend.

    Hugs,
    Clara

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    1. I know you're right, but self-preservation is a hard emotion to overcome!

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