In my post the other day, I told you I’d had a lousy day and
that I really thought a spanking would help so much. I usually put up my post
at midnight, but I just put it up that afternoon when I got it written. Several of you just told me to go for it. ASK
all ready! I thought about it, we were still waiting on the repairman. But
I was thinking.
Finally the guy came and went. And I kept thinking. I went
to the bedroom and got out Blondie’s paddle as I did this thinking. When I came
back to the living room, Nick was asleep in his chair. Sigh…
But he didn’t sleep that long and building up my nerve I
asked if he would be willing to help me out. He was. I even told him exactly
what I wanted. He did a lovely job, and I felt so
relaxed. I rolled over letting him know
that was fine and I got what I’d needed. But he told me he wasn’t
finished. He’d changed from the paddle
and got one of his new belts. When he starting taking off my pants I told him,
“Wait, no! I don’t need to take anything off.” But that didn’t seem to stop
him.
I told him that since I had to ask I thought I should be the
one to say how it would go. I was quickly informed I was wrong as he continued, both with the undressing and with the spanking. He didn’t like the new belt – I
didn’t like the feel myself, I mean not like his old soften leather belt. He
switched to that and kept going. It was what I needed.
I don’t know if there might me a little more to come – we had
an agreement about a weight goal that I didn’t exactly make. You have no idea
how much I hate exercise. Anyway my thanks to all of you who encouraged me to
go for it. It really did work.
Glad there was a happy Ending. :-)
ReplyDeleteWay to go PK! Congratulations for asking for what you need...now remember that you can ask whenever you need to. Go Nick!!!!
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Cat
Ahh...go figure it worked...LOL. I am glad you got what you needed....those old leather belts, they are so yummy. Oh i do have an idea how much you hate exercise...i have been 'convinced' to start again....and when i am done, it feels pretty good. Wish we lived closer we could help each other on this.
ReplyDeletehugs abby
Hi PK> Well, what a surprise that it worked;). Well done, now you can always ask. I didn't need to ask this morning :(.
ReplyDeleteLove Jan.xx
Glad you asked. I know we all expect them to know just what we need and when, but it doesn't always work that way. I'm sure Nick was happy for the help too.
ReplyDeleteSo happy that you asked- and got what you needed!
ReplyDeleteI agree with Sunny that we think they 'get it' but often they aren't following us and what we need.
Keep it up!
So glad it worked. I find that when I ask, I always get a little more than I asked for and I'm thinking "shouldn't I get to write the specs for this since I asked."
ReplyDeleteI just went through this the first time last week. As with anything else, often the first time is the hardest, at least that is what I hope. I have often been surprised by the actual vs the anticipated response. As the saying goes.. be careful what you ask for it may be more than you bargained for! Good work.
ReplyDeleteAsking is never easy. I was able to ask what I needed, physically. Need is different from want. But asking is the best we have. I was glad I was able to take that step.
ReplyDeletePK,
ReplyDeletesomething ate my comment.
I'm glad that you are getting better at asking for what you need.
Love and warm hugs,
Paul.
They can't read our minds so happy you asked and Nick stepped up.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Ronnie
xx
Oh, PK, I am so glad that you were able to go to him and tell him what you needed. Sounds like he's really getting the hang of things if he's taking charge like that. I hope things continue to keep going on a good path for you guys. :)
ReplyDelete{{{hugs}}} EsMay
Yay PK! :). I'm glad you asked and even happier that you got. So happy that Nick came through for you. This made me smile. Many hugs,
ReplyDelete<3 Katie
I am so glad you asked and got just what you needed. :-) Hugs
ReplyDeleteSorry I am late to this PK. I'm so glad you asked and that Nick gave you what you needed. I'm with you on the belt thing too. I much prefer his older belt that the new.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Roz
Great follow up to the last one! I love how you didn't EXACTLY make your weight goal!
ReplyDeleteRosie Dee