I have been a wife and mother for over twenty years. Now I am becoming my husband's lover, too.
We owe it all to my fellow bloggers who gave me the courage to come out to my husband as a spanko.
I do feel like this is a New Beginning for us.

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Sunday, March 02, 2014

I took your advice and asked

In my post the other day, I told you I’d had a lousy day and that I really thought a spanking would help so much. I usually put up my post at midnight, but I just put it up that afternoon when I got it written.  Several of you just told me to go for it. ASK all ready! I thought about it, we were still waiting on the repairman. But I was thinking.

Finally the guy came and went. And I kept thinking. I went to the bedroom and got out Blondie’s paddle as I did this thinking. When I came back to the living room, Nick was asleep in his chair. Sigh…

But he didn’t sleep that long and building up my nerve I asked if he would be willing to help me out. He was. I even told him exactly what I wanted. He did a lovely job, and I felt so relaxed.  I rolled over letting him know that was fine and I got what I’d needed. But he told me he wasn’t finished.  He’d changed from the paddle and got one of his new belts. When he starting taking off my pants I told him, “Wait, no! I don’t need to take anything off.” But that didn’t seem to stop him.

I told him that since I had to ask I thought I should be the one to say how it would go. I was quickly informed I was wrong as he continued, both with the undressing and with the spanking. He didn’t like the new belt – I didn’t like the feel myself, I mean not like his old soften leather belt. He switched to that and kept going. It was what I needed.

I don’t know if there might me a little more to come – we had an agreement about a weight goal that I didn’t exactly make. You have no idea how much I hate exercise. Anyway my thanks to all of you who encouraged me to go for it.  It really did work.


  1. Glad there was a happy Ending. :-)

  2. Way to go PK! Congratulations for asking for what you need...now remember that you can ask whenever you need to. Go Nick!!!!


  3. Ahh...go figure it worked...LOL. I am glad you got what you needed....those old leather belts, they are so yummy. Oh i do have an idea how much you hate exercise...i have been 'convinced' to start again....and when i am done, it feels pretty good. Wish we lived closer we could help each other on this.
    hugs abby

  4. Hi PK> Well, what a surprise that it worked;). Well done, now you can always ask. I didn't need to ask this morning :(.
    Love Jan.xx

  5. Glad you asked. I know we all expect them to know just what we need and when, but it doesn't always work that way. I'm sure Nick was happy for the help too.

  6. So happy that you asked- and got what you needed!
    I agree with Sunny that we think they 'get it' but often they aren't following us and what we need.
    Keep it up!

  7. So glad it worked. I find that when I ask, I always get a little more than I asked for and I'm thinking "shouldn't I get to write the specs for this since I asked."

  8. I just went through this the first time last week. As with anything else, often the first time is the hardest, at least that is what I hope. I have often been surprised by the actual vs the anticipated response. As the saying goes.. be careful what you ask for it may be more than you bargained for! Good work.

  9. Asking is never easy. I was able to ask what I needed, physically. Need is different from want. But asking is the best we have. I was glad I was able to take that step.

  10. PK,
    something ate my comment.
    I'm glad that you are getting better at asking for what you need.
    Love and warm hugs,

  11. They can't read our minds so happy you asked and Nick stepped up.


  12. Oh, PK, I am so glad that you were able to go to him and tell him what you needed. Sounds like he's really getting the hang of things if he's taking charge like that. I hope things continue to keep going on a good path for you guys. :)

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

  13. Yay PK! :). I'm glad you asked and even happier that you got. So happy that Nick came through for you. This made me smile. Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

  14. I am so glad you asked and got just what you needed. :-) Hugs

  15. Sorry I am late to this PK. I'm so glad you asked and that Nick gave you what you needed. I'm with you on the belt thing too. I much prefer his older belt that the new.


  16. Great follow up to the last one! I love how you didn't EXACTLY make your weight goal!
    Rosie Dee