tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post1877116311911981422..comments2024-03-26T18:59:25.722-04:00Comments on New Beginnings: The best rule ever.PKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-33506719271550766782011-07-29T23:09:07.001-04:002011-07-29T23:09:07.001-04:00Thanks Emily, I'm glad you liked it.
Kay,
I ...Thanks Emily, I'm glad you liked it.<br /><br />Kay, <br />I hope you can. I really do think it is a good marriage tool.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-26614764211073522592011-07-29T22:58:22.874-04:002011-07-29T22:58:22.874-04:00Wow, that is the best rule ever! I'm going to ...Wow, that is the best rule ever! I'm going to try hard to convince Jay to adopt it for us too. Thanks for sharing it! You guys will get it back again, I know it!Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03055228106900399814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-44003631480336157612011-07-29T01:28:31.929-04:002011-07-29T01:28:31.929-04:00I can't believe I'm just reading this wond...I can't believe I'm just reading this wonderful post! Thanks for sharing!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089101356388185673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-22492010435064172602011-07-28T21:32:22.690-04:002011-07-28T21:32:22.690-04:00Thanks C,
I do feel lucky. I wish you hadn’t had...Thanks C, <br />I do feel lucky. I wish you hadn’t had to go through that. I hope a new love finds you.<br /><br />Paul,<br />I know I have your support and I thank you. I’ll let you know what happens.<br /> <br />Kitty, <br />The rule was wonderful. Unlike talking I could take the time to think about what I needed to say and Nick had time to give it some thought before he responds. <br /> <br />Abby, <br />I hope you’re right. And it’s never too late to start the rule.<br /> <br />Ronnie,<br />I have everything crossed that it will happen. This doesn’t have to be a rule to be a really good idea – even vanilla couples would benefit from this.<br /> <br />Meow,<br />From reading your blog, I know that our marriages are very much alike. I feel like a made a real breakthrough yesterday in understanding myself. I really do know what I want and at least a way to start getting there.<br /><br /> <br />Rogue,<br />I really think all of us are after the closeness. I may start again, maybe we all should.<br /> <br />Kiwi,<br />I’d like to take it up again but I can’t until I know he wants to mess with it. But I think there is a good chance. And I’ll for sure keep you posted.<br /> <br />Terps,<br />I know we have so many things in common. I appreciate this comment. It expresses your true feelings. Please start doing that more. You may not be ready to blog yourself but you need to comment more and you need to say what you feel. NO ONE here is going to judge you for your feelings. Maybe by commenting more you can understand yourself better. No one out here really knows each other in real life so it’s the safest place in the world to really be yourself. Give it a try.<br /><br />FD, <br />I feel like I’ve won have the battle. We’ll see what happened.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-81468689709806887032011-07-28T19:54:04.952-04:002011-07-28T19:54:04.952-04:00PK: It is great that you have figured out what you...PK: It is great that you have figured out what you want and that is a great rule.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-34526227905571343402011-07-28T19:20:31.261-04:002011-07-28T19:20:31.261-04:00"There is a fear in me. I don’t know it’s ori..."There is a fear in me. I don’t know it’s origin but it’s there. I’m not letting anyone in the whole way. They will see the real me and won’t like her and I’ll be alone. It’s a stupid fear. There’s no basis for it. My parents were the most loving and caring parents. I was always secure and happy as a child. Nick has been the best husband ever..." These words really touched me to tears as I could have written them myself (replace Nick with my husband's name) and it expresses some of my own innermost feelings and fears. With me it also connects with weight - I had lost a lot of weight and all the sudden people started noticing me more and it freaked me out - I was afraid to be seen and subsequently gained back the weight. And with my husband I fear that he does not want to hear all my feelings - and often seems like he does not truly "hear" me when I do...I know that he loves me entirely...but he does not talk about or deal with emotions well...a challenge since I am a very emotional person. My fear is even present here in blogland - afraid to share my feelings in comments because someone might think they are stupid or naive. I love how open you are with us in your sharing. I love that Nick made that a rule for you. It is a great rule. I love what you said about connection. Connection is what it is all about for me too. You and Nick will find the closeness you seek...I know you will because the love you feel for each other is genuine. You have grown so much in your relationship and it will just keep growing. I hope you both revisit that rule. Hugs, TerpsTerpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-28151296774241528242011-07-28T17:10:09.932-04:002011-07-28T17:10:09.932-04:00ive read and re-read your post. Its an absolutely...ive read and re-read your post. Its an absolutely wonderful rule - and I think you should try and take it up again. I hope you and yes absolutely whole heartedly agree its about the closeness. Good luck, I know you can get this again - I think from reading your post so far you are half way there :) keep us posted.<br />LOve and big big hugs xxxkiwigirliegirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07875041768284887283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-27914796275675754302011-07-28T16:57:57.572-04:002011-07-28T16:57:57.572-04:00That is a great rule!! And I agree that it's ...That is a great rule!! And I agree that it's about the closeness. I think you should start sending the emails again...Roguehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06369103338758893709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-33567180404918283212011-07-28T16:33:48.754-04:002011-07-28T16:33:48.754-04:00What a great rule! And what great insight to real...What a great rule! And what great insight to realize what you really need, deep down inside. Rules and discipline can be one way of reaching that connection but not the only way that involves spanking. You've brought up some wonderful little moments that we and our husbands share when spanking is part of our lives. The winks, the smiles, the pats - they are so precious! I truly believe you are on your way to a place that you will love.Meowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05807600710251731849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-46331574625425446442011-07-28T12:12:35.841-04:002011-07-28T12:12:35.841-04:00And I really believe you'll get it back again....And I really believe you'll get it back again.<br /><br />I like that rule and I'm not one for rules as you know:)<br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-72347418609336580462011-07-28T08:19:44.468-04:002011-07-28T08:19:44.468-04:00WOW...love that rule. I wish I heard of this year...WOW...love that rule. I wish I heard of this years ago. You and Nick can get that closeness...I know it!<br />abbyabbyhttp://finalllyfindingme.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-51465054089030570522011-07-28T08:09:08.858-04:002011-07-28T08:09:08.858-04:00I absolutely love that rule! That's one of th...I absolutely love that rule! That's one of the things that's hard for me to share, as well, and it's not easy for most men to deal with a woman's emotions.<br /><br />KittyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-25556346040942611312011-07-28T07:23:00.261-04:002011-07-28T07:23:00.261-04:00PK. I think, I hope that you can do this together,...PK. I think, I hope that you can do this together, I'm with you all the way.<br />Love and warm hugs,<br />Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-80320911674330801992011-07-28T03:44:47.264-04:002011-07-28T03:44:47.264-04:00I hope you can. I wish you better luck than I had...I hope you can. I wish you better luck than I had with my now ex husband after 24 years. You are a very luck woman.<br /><br />Best wishes<br /><br />CAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com