tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post139112490962535622..comments2024-03-26T18:59:25.722-04:00Comments on New Beginnings: All right, who the hell has Nick’s email address?PKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-68860013363886667092023-02-13T12:27:23.718-05:002023-02-13T12:27:23.718-05:00Oh boy, I laughed when I read your Outlander comme...Oh boy, I laughed when I read your Outlander comment. I myself am so late on the Sassenach train but... that controversial spanking scene was exactly what started it all for me, I wrote my first spanking story and then turned to the spanko blogosphere and the rest is history...And yes, if anyone knows if Jigsaw is running a blog or a forum somewhere else, please let me know. That old TTWD forum was awesome.Sore is morehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563830167579953251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-73129508886453456432021-04-02T20:57:27.735-04:002021-04-02T20:57:27.735-04:00I left out half the reply, lol. I think that it i...I left out half the reply, lol. I think that it is the dd relationship that is erotic. In fact, dd can eroticize the entire relationship. There is a post on JG's old blog about how dd can make a man feel ten feet tall while taking out the garbage. I meant by that that, when we are doing dd, it affects how I feel about everything that I do as a husband. I want to rock my role as husband. I am not "a husband." I am "THE HUSBAND." One whose beautiful, educated, and highly competent wife, turns to for the discipline that she needs. <br />DD is impossibly romantic, in the broadest sense of the word. artlovernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-47724356513063158362021-04-02T20:52:25.454-04:002021-04-02T20:52:25.454-04:00"For my needs I need occasional discipline, i..."For my needs I need occasional discipline, it's what my mind craved. Just discipline."<br /><br />To my mind, there is no separating the two. I don't mean the spanking itself feels erotic. You can hate every second of the spanking. But love that you are a spanked wife, spanked for real, not play.artlovernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-79889334156411415442021-03-22T13:12:04.007-04:002021-03-22T13:12:04.007-04:00Sorry I'm so late in replying -
In my mind I...Sorry I'm so late in replying - <br /><br />In my mind I saw two different things. For my needs I need occasional discipline, it's what my mind craved. Just discipline. I separated that need from erotic or playful spankings. I liked both for sure, but eventually I began seeing the erotic one only for him - a way to get what he wanted. Since we only did that and no discipline, I felt my needs were never considered. I'm not saying for sure that I was right, but that's how I felt.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-13498145209036163662021-03-20T16:49:28.999-04:002021-03-20T16:49:28.999-04:00“Just because I have to punish you and beat your a...“Just because I have to punish you and beat your arse, Sassenach, did not mean I’m not going to enjoy it.”<br /><br />There is a good post starting a thread on the old "Taken in Hand" directed to husbands called "you are allowed to enjoy it" or something like that. <br /><br />Personally, I have never understood the whole "keep it separate from sex" thing. In this day and age, doing DD is incredibly, almost impossibly romantic. And it is relational, not utilitarian. To hear some people talk, you would think that spanking your wife is as utilitarian as changing a tire. Ridiculous. artlovernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-24369678448392792062021-03-18T18:44:45.212-04:002021-03-18T18:44:45.212-04:00I don't suspect you, you'd just call him.I don't suspect you, you'd just call him.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-4903343314735615752021-03-17T09:22:02.857-04:002021-03-17T09:22:02.857-04:00HahaHahaAimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-42349685127695071672021-03-16T21:47:12.190-04:002021-03-16T21:47:12.190-04:00You're right that communicating is what's ...You're right that communicating is what's important over all. But sometimes I simply freeze when we actually talk. I just can't make words come out. But we'll keep plugging along.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-57682592962637862692021-03-16T21:42:13.507-04:002021-03-16T21:42:13.507-04:00Thanks Cloe, we don't do it as often as we sho...Thanks Cloe, we don't do it as often as we should. But thats to him we're still trying.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-13121609739151351882021-03-16T21:40:47.564-04:002021-03-16T21:40:47.564-04:00We will somehow and I'll probably keep bloggin...We will somehow and I'll probably keep blogging about.<br />PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-63887442607773528142021-03-16T20:33:36.264-04:002021-03-16T20:33:36.264-04:00We used to go from emailing, to talking, then over...We used to go from emailing, to talking, then over time, not talking or emailing. I remember B wanting to resume emailing, ( a while ago) and I said no, no matter how hard it is we need to talk. Or I did. Not because I believe for all it is the right way to go- communicate any way one CAN is the most important aspect, but because it added a much needed, forced layer of vulnerability to me when I probably needed it most. I hope you continue on in ways that help you move forward.<br /><br />williehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-57621355645947333022021-03-16T13:21:00.096-04:002021-03-16T13:21:00.096-04:00I'm so glad you talked to your husband, it'...I'm so glad you talked to your husband, it's great!!<br />Cloe Spankeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17672607848800493522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-81384593398308859002021-03-16T09:25:26.478-04:002021-03-16T09:25:26.478-04:00Well THIS just made me smile!
First, dinner out ...Well THIS just made me smile! <br /><br />First, dinner out and with friends! Wow! AND this conversation :) <br /><br />Hoping you two will continue to move forward, however that looks for you ;)Deenanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-89419341845671185562021-03-16T08:24:02.442-04:002021-03-16T08:24:02.442-04:00
Hey Fondles, I was definitely kidding. I know no ...<br />Hey Fondles, I was definitely kidding. I know no one emailed him. No one has his address. But truly I feel I could throw his email out here and still no one would use it without asking me first. He may have popped on here to read, I think he does on very rare occasions. Or he may have just wanted to talk. Either way its a step in the right direction.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-87748909908768906902021-03-16T02:36:10.697-04:002021-03-16T02:36:10.697-04:00I walk with BIKSS. more for him than for me, but o...I walk with BIKSS. more for him than for me, but one of us has to get the ball going... <br /><br />As for the emails, I hope u say that in jest cos the alarmist in me thinks it's kinda beyond a person's allowed jurisdiction to write to him behind your back. Otherwise, I'd say maybe he popped in here to read... or happened to see one of your emails as you were typing it... <br /><br />(or did you send him something meant for someone else by mistake?)<br /><br />Perhaps its just the universe lending a helping hand! <br /><br />I'm surely pleased that you're talking about things tho... I've found myself in a place where we're re-examining our own dynamics (don't worry, in a good way) and fine tuning our rituals too. <br /><br />Looking forward to progress! So happy for you. Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-57493343422589967872021-03-15T23:00:32.300-04:002021-03-15T23:00:32.300-04:00LOL! You wouldn't have been the only one email...LOL! You wouldn't have been the only one emailing if his address was out there. That is fantastic on your weight loss. I've tried WW with limited results. But exercise is not really for me either. We'll see what happens.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-44824328264327790842021-03-15T16:42:51.876-04:002021-03-15T16:42:51.876-04:00Oh, I love this! I went on weight watchers about a...Oh, I love this! I went on weight watchers about a year ago and lost 40 pounds, no help from the hubby, yes I am proud of myself. But I could use some motivation when it comes to exercising, I hate it. <br />Oh, I am so happy for you, glad Nick got my emails, lol, just kidding, it wasn't me. Blondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-26591873756260894292021-03-15T14:17:54.294-04:002021-03-15T14:17:54.294-04:00Well, don't share anything you're not comf...Well, don't share anything you're not comfortable sharing. Not what I meant. :) Windyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06867828862057296642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-68426429273196552492021-03-15T12:21:38.975-04:002021-03-15T12:21:38.975-04:00Thanks Terps! As I've said before it's lik...Thanks Terps! As I've said before it's like dragging an anchor over gravel. But we did manage.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-50049547253311763622021-03-15T12:20:40.926-04:002021-03-15T12:20:40.926-04:00You would love this place. It's my absolute fa...You would love this place. It's my absolute favorite. Bits of prime rib is one of the sides at their salad bar!<br /><br />I'll keep blogging you know and keep everyone up to date.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-63823681176922878042021-03-15T12:20:38.079-04:002021-03-15T12:20:38.079-04:00Oh, PK, I am truly happy for you. I know how vulne...Oh, PK, I am truly happy for you. I know how vulnerable and hard it can be to talk face to face, but I am so glad you both did. And I wish you many happy spankings ahead. :-) HugsTerpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-17279729661698166272021-03-15T12:18:51.225-04:002021-03-15T12:18:51.225-04:00I guard Nick's email like the crown jewels. If...I guard Nick's email like the crown jewels. If some of you had it, I might never sit again!PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-58901559315262256242021-03-15T12:17:46.399-04:002021-03-15T12:17:46.399-04:00It was really wonderful!
I'm glad we talked,...It was really wonderful! <br /><br />I'm glad we talked, too. Cassie might give me hell, but she would never email Nick.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-41945198817763787692021-03-15T12:16:42.410-04:002021-03-15T12:16:42.410-04:00Giving details is harder these days - but I'll...Giving details is harder these days - but I'll try. Cassie would never.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-89862708945382968662021-03-15T12:07:21.319-04:002021-03-15T12:07:21.319-04:00Sounds like you had a lovely weekend. Oh to be abl...Sounds like you had a lovely weekend. Oh to be able to eat out at a restaurant. <br /><br />Makes me happy that you and Nick have talked. Look forward to hearing more.<br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.com