tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post9165685567475407598..comments2024-03-26T18:59:25.722-04:00Comments on New Beginnings: I have to say this.PKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-90456778902173352932007-09-10T19:17:00.000-04:002007-09-10T19:17:00.000-04:00PK this is such a heartfelt post, and I've so been...PK this is such a heartfelt post, and I've so been there. In fact, it feels a little drought-ish around here right now! I know things will come around for you guys, and kudos for you for opening your mouth, er browser about it and saying something! That's always the hardest part for me, and it's always because I feel like "Well, he's given me this long..." What I always end up being shown is that he does this because of his love for me, and he's certainly not run out of that!<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/><BR/>TracyAngelBrathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09667535664802968700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-76594381737964579522007-09-10T14:31:00.000-04:002007-09-10T14:31:00.000-04:00Even though this is days later, why do I feel like...Even though this is days later, why do I feel like PK will be doing all of her teaching standing up at the earliest possible moment, if not already?<BR/><BR/>Hang in there girl! It will right itself soon!<BR/><BR/>~Hugs!MaggieDearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07942979257006640317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-21443331132224193682007-09-10T12:06:00.000-04:002007-09-10T12:06:00.000-04:00Nick, if it feels like a drought to PK, it feels l...Nick, if it feels like a drought to PK, it feels like one! I get spanked and sex every day, barring the occasional day when it can't be worked in, usually due to illness. I get weepy if it hasn't happened by 7 pm or so. It is all perception. <BR/>Hugs, <BR/>KallistoKallistohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18221569332915775582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-10141391634239222502007-09-10T09:43:00.000-04:002007-09-10T09:43:00.000-04:00Does anyone else who read the post from Sept 4 thi...Does anyone else who read the post from Sept 4 think it was a little early to announce a big spanking drought on Sept 8? I am trying to get PK to understand it is mostly a reduction in oppotunity and partially an issue of perception. I agree with many of the comments "Bonnie said it very well".<BR/><BR/>NickAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-30186843162827947992007-09-10T06:49:00.000-04:002007-09-10T06:49:00.000-04:00You guys are super and very smart!! I will answer ...You guys are super and very smart!! I will answer you individually later today.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-82925240031417070982007-09-09T21:43:00.000-04:002007-09-09T21:43:00.000-04:00Wow, Great advice here. I'd print out the comments...Wow, Great advice here. I'd print out the comments if possible too! We have ups and downs too. You'll make it through it. So will Nick. Try starting with touching him more and encouraging him to do the same :-)<BR/><BR/>CaryeCaryagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18283871229312401932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-10212604478793779992007-09-09T14:42:00.000-04:002007-09-09T14:42:00.000-04:00Hi PK---I hope this is just a blip in the road and...Hi PK---I hope this is just a blip in the road and you all can get back on track. It takes work, just like any other part of a relationship. It is so easy for time to slip by without things happening, and Nick might have gotten the idea that you were losing interest in it--although heaven only knows how? Spanky also doesn't understand why spanking works for me, but sees the results, and loves them! <BR/>I am definitely keeping you in my thoughts.......get him back on track!<BR/>Big hugs,<BR/>KallistoKallistohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18221569332915775582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-35185498237179113542007-09-09T13:39:00.000-04:002007-09-09T13:39:00.000-04:00Have you heard the commercials on match.com by Dr ...Have you heard the commercials on match.com by Dr Phil? He says girls cannot connect the dots too much for men. We cannot make the lines between the dots to bold for men. <BR/><BR/>I also think Bonnie is right, reading this post should be enough.<BR/><BR/>I have told Will I want his hands on my bottom or at least on me all the time. That part is as important to me as sex and spanking!<BR/><BR/>Huggs<BR/>TheresaTheresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04955725003787142974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-24125719043005375092007-09-09T08:39:00.000-04:002007-09-09T08:39:00.000-04:00How come Mthc didn't mention that yesterday her as...How come Mthc didn't mention that yesterday her ass cheeks were a lovely shade of crimson and that she was covered in baby oil? <BR/><BR/>By all her moaning it was a good thing our windows were down or the whole town would have heard her moaning and coming.<BR/><BR/>Nick I'm waiting for a great post from Pk that you have come back to your senses and that you had a wonderful SPANKING, SEXUAL time together.<BR/><BR/>I like Bonnie's idea on the new approaches so get busy and have a wonderful time pleasing your woman.<BR/><BR/>*hugs and grins*davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222836369199038788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-32031088898190335602007-09-09T08:07:00.000-04:002007-09-09T08:07:00.000-04:00Pk,I also think Bonnie and Dove are right about Ni...Pk,<BR/>I also think Bonnie and Dove are right about Nick reading this post.<BR/> Email it to him or print it out as Paul Says. We're not nearly as active as we once were but the interest is coming back. Sometimes things just get in the way.<BR/> With David i pretty much h-A-V-E T-O S-P-E-L-L I-T O-U-T. (smiles)mthchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10337700677733209175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-17341951530451174502007-09-09T07:55:00.000-04:002007-09-09T07:55:00.000-04:00PK, dear friend, Bonnie really has said it all.Eve...PK, dear friend, Bonnie really has said it all.<BR/><BR/>Every road has a few bumps on it, when I talk about my marriage, I highlight the best bits, that's human nature.<BR/><BR/>We had our times when we seemed to lose touch, one such time was when I realised that Mel no longer needed real punishment, she thought that I was falling out of love because I no longer punished her hard.<BR/><BR/>It took a while for her to realise that I loved her more because she no longer needed that incentive.<BR/><BR/>This is a blip, you'll see, why not print this post and give it to Nick.<BR/>Love and warm reassuring hugs,<BR/>Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-34715484268186539602007-09-09T01:25:00.000-04:002007-09-09T01:25:00.000-04:00Hi PKBonnie has given you great advice and I agree...Hi PK<BR/><BR/>Bonnie has given you great advice and I agree if Nick reads just this post it says it all. I really feel for you and I understand eventhough you have opened up how hard it is each time to do it again. Don't give up you will find a way. <BR/><BR/>Hugs<BR/>DoveDovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02655904973457309356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-32735906689626407992007-09-09T01:06:00.000-04:002007-09-09T01:06:00.000-04:00PK,Nick needn't read your entire blog from the beg...PK,<BR/><BR/>Nick needn't read your entire blog from the beginning. This post alone should be enough.<BR/><BR/>Randy and I have had our ups and downs. Just as you note, the down times were characterized by less frequent touching, loving, and spanking.<BR/><BR/>The path back, it seems to me, starts with innovation. I don't mean that you and Nick should take up hang gliding or basket weaving. Small changes can have a great impact. Innovation tends to become self-reinforcing and, given a good effort by both partners, little changes can quickly yield big benefits.<BR/><BR/>I think your idea about implements is right on target. Other approaches we use include new role play scenarios, lingerie, costumes, restraints, sex toys, locations (nothing beats a spanko weekend getaway), positions, music, photographs, mirrors, blindfolds, scented oils, body paint, candles, and writing out fantasies. The idea is to make your time together special. By loving and sharing together, you reinforce the bond between you.<BR/><BR/>I believe this is probably just a bump in the road. You and Nick are still headed in the right direction.<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>BonnieBonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.com