tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post8417516528223491297..comments2024-03-26T18:59:25.722-04:00Comments on New Beginnings: You need to know this...PKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-57236094990663168242009-02-15T19:49:00.000-05:002009-02-15T19:49:00.000-05:00KJ,That's for leaving this comment. Whenever I se...KJ,<BR/>That's for leaving this comment. Whenever I see another comment has been posted her I always get a feeling in the pit of my stomach fearing I am going to get blasted. It is a relief when someone nice comments.<BR/><BR/>I am so happy that you liked Cassie's stories. They are the writing I am the most proud of. I did reopen the site and I hope to post more there. Maybe in the summer I will have more time. Please comment anytime you like!<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>PKPKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-57881563988359938012009-02-15T19:27:00.000-05:002009-02-15T19:27:00.000-05:00Ok so I'm slow....just now finding this out. Cass...Ok so I'm slow....just now finding this out. Cassie's Space was my favorite sight to go to. So I'm a bit surprised, but not hurt. You know what's funny.....I would go to her sight first, and then directly to yours.<BR/><BR/>Ok though seriously, the stories "she" wrote......The casino, Sue and Steve, the time Tom put Ben Gay on her freshly spanked bottom before she put the girdle on for the wedding! We need to see more stories like that in Fantasy Friday!!!!! You are a terrific storyteller! We don't have to miss that! <BR/><BR/>Take care,<BR/><BR/>KJAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-22843860166862868802009-01-24T00:44:00.000-05:002009-01-24T00:44:00.000-05:00Lil Miss Naughty,I appreciate you coming by.PKLil Miss Naughty,<BR/>I appreciate you coming by.<BR/><BR/>PKPKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-67895719528991912022009-01-23T19:13:00.000-05:002009-01-23T19:13:00.000-05:00I think what you did was wrong, but everyone makes...I think what you did was wrong, but everyone makes mistakes, and no one is perfect, and it takes a lot of courage to tell the truth,like you did. I don't know you, but I really don't think you meant to hurt anyone anyway take care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-51505861171907945212009-01-22T19:11:00.000-05:002009-01-22T19:11:00.000-05:00Thank you Mina,I think it was the most beautiful s...Thank you Mina,<BR/>I think it was the most beautiful site I have ever seen too. CeeCi really out did herself on that one. Thanks for coming by.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-78397213936642730902009-01-22T10:04:00.000-05:002009-01-22T10:04:00.000-05:00Dear PK, this was a revelation for sure but it doe...Dear PK, this was a revelation for sure but it doesn't truly bother me in the least. I knew Cassie only a little but I will say that she was instrumental in helping me to 'come out' to my husband when I did. No wonder you suggested the letters, just as Cassie did...smiles. No, it didn't work out for me as it did for Cassie and that is, I suppose, the difference between fantasy and reality. <BR/><BR/>Anyway, keep blogging as you see fit. I will still come by to read.<BR/><BR/>I will say this. Cassie has a simply beautiful looking blog. It resonates such peace.<BR/><BR/>Hugs<BR/>MinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-56164640877455949502009-01-21T22:14:00.000-05:002009-01-21T22:14:00.000-05:00Reesa,Thanks for your thoughts. Maybe I do have m...Reesa,<BR/>Thanks for your thoughts. Maybe I do have more imagination than anyone needs. I miss you out here, but if you are working 4 jobs I can see that you wouldn’t have time. I do consider you a friend though to I will keep checking in.<BR/><BR/>Thanks Indy, <BR/>It has been an interesting 3 days. But it feels good that I no longer feel I am hiding something from good friends.<BR/><BR/>Lessa!<BR/>I love you! Ice that champagne, she is coming back.<BR/><BR/>Purple,<BR/>I ran into a little trouble with Nick for referring to myself as a ‘piece of s**t. Won’t make that mistake again!! All these wonderful comments I am letting go of the guilt. Thank you.<BR/><BR/>Bonnie,<BR/>You always manage to say the right thing. I am happy you are not a 75year old man. And I imagine Randy it thrilled!!PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-76901761947312813772009-01-21T21:45:00.000-05:002009-01-21T21:45:00.000-05:00PS - I'm not a 75 year old man.PS - I'm not a 75 year old man.Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-80096254893731795582009-01-21T19:00:00.000-05:002009-01-21T19:00:00.000-05:00PK,I just posted my thoughts. My take is a little...PK,<BR/><BR/>I just posted my thoughts. My take is a little different than most here, but I hope you will find it fair and sensitive.<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>BonnieBonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-43891080966840481252009-01-21T14:46:00.000-05:002009-01-21T14:46:00.000-05:00My dear PK,Stop feeling like "shit". There is no ...My dear PK,<BR/>Stop feeling like "shit". There is no need to. I love your blog and you have been a very good friend when we have exchanged emails. Cassie did not hurt anyone, your alter ego was simply a way of expressing what you couldn't express as yourself. For many years after being abused I disassociated under difficult conditions. I used to think of it as a protective mind vacation and I still do although it is no longer anything I need.<BR/>So you needed a way into this world. I did too, only it took me forever to find it. I admire you for owning up but I don't think you did anything vile. Let go of the guilt, you are a terrific lady.<BR/>Hugs,<BR/>Purple AngelPurple Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11700522643028495406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-42800430379910825712009-01-21T11:43:00.000-05:002009-01-21T11:43:00.000-05:00PK... I will be coming back here now to.. but if C...PK... I will be coming back here now to.. but if Cassie opens up again... I am gonna pop a bottle of champagne... I will be very very happy if she's back... <BR/><BR/>hugs, lessahestiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09235367231120619338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-91569193981638158892009-01-21T09:07:00.000-05:002009-01-21T09:07:00.000-05:00PK, I've never read Cassie, so I can't comment abo...PK, <BR/><BR/>I've never read Cassie, so I can't comment about your alter ego. But I'm glad you found the confidence to write as yourself, and I admire your courage in writing this post. <BR/><BR/>All the best,<BR/>IndyIndyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11949593044223905786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-10773113151597262112009-01-21T05:27:00.000-05:002009-01-21T05:27:00.000-05:00Hey, PK, please don't stop blogging. Even though ...Hey, PK, please don't stop blogging. Even though I can rarely come on here anymore, I still want to hear about you and your real life. I always thought Cassie was too perfect to be true. I thought she made up most of her stories, but she was such a warm friendly old lady that I'm sure she helped many people find some comfort in relating to her. So now we know she's a younger woman with an overactive imagination - no big deal in my book. Please tell Paul that I wish he'd had a Mel and I don't think any less of him for playing out that fantasy. I don't know about anything else going on here except what I've just read here - I'm working 4 jobs as D got laid off in December and I have no time to read elsewhere or even post on my blog. Thanks for emailing to let me know as I do want to keep in touch!<BR/><BR/>Huggs,<BR/>ReesaReesa Robertshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11779985876138001670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-87918413160240882012009-01-20T23:38:00.000-05:002009-01-20T23:38:00.000-05:00Theresa,You snooze you lose out here. That site w...Theresa,<BR/>You snooze you lose out here. That site will be opening soon. You can get on then. Thanks for coming by.<BR/><BR/>Kari,<BR/>Thank you for coming by. I never knew I could write until I started putting down the 'day dreams' that had played through my mind for so many years. I am not proud of the way I did it but I am proud of the writing at both sites.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-5308061437068913832009-01-20T21:45:00.000-05:002009-01-20T21:45:00.000-05:00I've linked to "Cassie's blog" a couple of times. ...I've linked to "Cassie's blog" a couple of times. Read a few times, and honestly wondered if this woman's life was real. I honestly I didn't care still don't. I write for a living, technical writer, I am not creative, not a story teller. If someone has the energy and creativeness to create a blog then more power to them. Even more amazing for 2 blogs. <BR/><BR/>I stopped reading's Cassie's blog quite awhile ago, I only read about 2 or 3 blogs other than New Beginnings on a regular basis. <BR/><BR/>Please continue your blog. <BR/><BR/>As for Paul, I only knew him through a couple of posts. Making up a dead wife could be a coping skill for someone lonely, but leaving themselves open to a new relationship. If that is what a person needs to do to get by then that is what they do. I don't understand people being hurt, though, did they know 'Paul's wife'?, no, do they miss talking to 'her', no couldn't be that either. Send him gifts in her memory, I don't know. Don't understand how or why someone could be mad about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-73340945224492348872009-01-20T18:53:00.000-05:002009-01-20T18:53:00.000-05:00I cannot believe this! I am furious. Cassie went p...I cannot believe this! I am furious. Cassie went private and I was not invited? So who's idea was that, your's PK? Or Cassie's? Oh yeah you're the same. Ok so invite me and I'll forgive you.<BR/><BR/>But there is one more thing. You deserve 50 lashes with a wet noodle. Oh yeah I forgot you want real spankings. OK then 50 lashes with a raw noodle! No worries PK. You'll always be my friend!<BR/><BR/>Huggs!<BR/>TheresaTheresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04955725003787142974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-60782275343988940782009-01-20T13:00:00.000-05:002009-01-20T13:00:00.000-05:00Tracy,Thank you I appreciate the emails we exchang...Tracy,<BR/>Thank you I appreciate the emails we exchange and I really do look forward to getting to know you better.<BR/><BR/>Mthc,<BR/>All I can say is that you are my friend, I love you and would trust you with my life.<BR/><BR/>Dante,<BR/>Thank you for your thoughts.<BR/><BR/>Eva,<BR/>I know you are with me. It is what has gotten me through all this. I want to open Cassie’s site again and I probably will – with the appropriate disclaimers. <BR/><BR/>Belle,<BR/>Thank you for taking the time to comment. I hope you are right that many understand the need to explore hidden parts of yourself and what you want to be. Please don’t be a stranger.<BR/><BR/>AG,<BR/>I am just happy you read Cassie and I am very happy it led you to create your own blog. It is a great blog and I am glad you are exploring your writing talents. Let’s both keep trying.<BR/><BR/>Tig,<BR/>Thank you.<BR/><BR/>Jean,<BR/>You’re great. Thanks for saying that. I am going to stay if I can.<BR/><BR/>Kyleigh,<BR/>I am so happy to have your comment. Honestly the thing that hurt most during the last two months was knowing I had hurt people by shutting them out. I know how much I would have been hurt in my first few weeks and months here if Bonnie or some of the others had gone private and shut the door in my face. Doing that to other nearly killed me.<BR/><BR/>Maryann,<BR/>I thank you. I liked my writing there but I sure wish I had gone about it in a different way.<BR/><BR/>Jay,<BR/>I hope you are doing well. We all have to do what we think is best at the time we are doing them. I made a big mistake by lying. You were not wrong confiding in someone you see as a friend. <BR/><BR/>Yaya,<BR/>I can’t say bravery too many people already knew and I felt I should be the one to tell it. Some times you are only brave when you have no choice. But I am glad we have become closer from all of this. <BR/><BR/>Anon,<BR/>Check what I just said to YaYa about bravery but thank you so very much. There are a few folks that I know are very disappointed I was not run out of blogland on a rail or perhaps tarred and feathered. But very few and no one that has commented here. Your support means a lot to me.<BR/><BR/>Terps,<BR/>You are a joy!<BR/><BR/>Kallisto,<BR/>Thank you for saying all that. I really didn’t know how everyone was going to feel and the acceptance has been overwhelming.<BR/><BR/>CeeCi,<BR/>Knowing I had kept your friendship and being able to email you during the day yesterday was wonderful. I hope people don’t see all this support and think for a minute that I have forgotten what I did or forgotten that I hurt people. I am just so grateful for the Grace Eva talked about and that I am receiving.<BR/><BR/>Lessa,<BR/>Cassie really enjoyed your comments. If I open her back up I don’t know that anyone will comment but time will tell. Thank you for accepting me whoever I am.<BR/><BR/>Jess,<BR/>You are so cool! She was a part of me. It has taken me a while to realize that but she is. So I guess maybe that means I can write her.<BR/><BR/>M:e,<BR/>I am glad you read both places and I am glad you feel more comfortable here now. Please come back often.<BR/><BR/>Thank you Pmduo,<BR/>I don’t want to go and the support you and everyone is giving me – well I really can’t tell you all what that means.<BR/><BR/>John, <BR/>You are absolute right. Becoming email friends with real folks was my biggest mistake. Although they were befriended by a real person it was not the person they thought they were talking to. That is my biggest regret and I have apologized to most of these people personally – some by phone. I don’t know that I can do more.<BR/><BR/>Ronnie,<BR/>Cassie was such fun I think even everyone that thought she was real probably thought not everything she said happened exactly as she was reporting it. Thank you for your friendship. I plan to stay around.<BR/><BR/>Thanks catme,<BR/>I hope to stay.<BR/><BR/>Hermione,<BR/>I will have to tell you I am amazed at how supportive the comments have been. Thanks for taking the time to say this.<BR/><BR/>Tiggr,<BR/>I hope you are right and that it is all over.<BR/><BR/>AG, <BR/>I truly thank you for this!! Cassie was never set up as a good roll model for a DD wife. Quite the contrary she often said she was a bad wife and was glad Tom put up with her. I tried to show flaw and I think I did! <BR/>Certainly as PK I have told everyone from the beginning I had no idea what I was doing other than learning along with everyone else. Thank you for everything you have said.<BR/><BR/>Paul,<BR/>I will never forget your kindness to me when I was in exactly the same place you have found yourself in the past few days. The love and forgiveness you showed was unbelievable. I don’t even understand the reasons behind all I did but I think you and I do understand each other flaws and all. I do not plan to lose contact with you! <BR/><BR/>If I left anyone out I didn't mean to. I think I got everyone. For all of these comments and for the wonderful emails I have received I thank everyone.<BR/><BR/>PKPKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-59889986239015691542009-01-20T12:16:00.000-05:002009-01-20T12:16:00.000-05:00PK, this was a very brave thing to do, and a gestu...PK, this was a very brave thing to do, and a gesture that I truly appreciate.<BR/>I was one of those who discovered who Cassie was, and believe me I miss my baby sister.<BR/>But A) I love PK she is a good friend and B) she had neither defrauded anyone or indeed hurt them, yes feelings were hurt, most of us love that couple.<BR/>Love and warm hugs,<BR/>Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-50324669931369238422009-01-20T10:04:00.000-05:002009-01-20T10:04:00.000-05:00Hi PK:It's just me again. Just wanted to tell you ...Hi PK:<BR/>It's just me again. Just wanted to tell you again how much I admire you. And to remind those of you who thought she was giving professional advice or any advice at all, that Cassie did not hang out a Shingle! If someone actually needs serious advice than they need to see a professional. Cassie and PK never portrayed themselves as professional therapists. And asking for advice for a dd relationship is not any more or less important than advice for any human relationship, ALL of our relationships are important. I have read many blogs here in my short time here in blogging land many of the things I have read in all of your lovely posts has been very helpful for me regardless of what your name is, how old you are, what your sexual orientation is, married, widowed or whatever. (for instance if I found out that Bonnie was a 75 year old man, it wouldn't matter to me, her articles and tutorials on her blog were very interesting and educational)If I need professional or serious advice than I seek it in other places. In a perfect world we could all be 100 percent honest. I certainly strive for that in my life, and I am sure I have fallen far short from it many times. Perhaps in PKs coming forward she is helping other people to let go of what is "untrue" or "unreal" in their lives. Maybe we are all reassessing a bit of what is important about us and in our relationships and our lives. I think that is a wonderful and healing thing to do. I realize that those of you that believed in "Cassie" may be hurt, but let's please find a place for forgiveness and peace also. Because with forgivness we bring the peace and healing into our OWN lives that we all need so desparately. <BR/>Hugs to PK and to you all<BR/>AndradesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-75166371430419081062009-01-20T09:47:00.000-05:002009-01-20T09:47:00.000-05:00I have so much I want to say to each and every per...I have so much I want to say to each and every person who commented. And everyone who read here. I will answer my commnents but it may take a few days. Please check back. <BR/><BR/>Once again I am blown away with the people I know here.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-80812925512137234522009-01-20T09:42:00.000-05:002009-01-20T09:42:00.000-05:00PK, you've always been a treasure here, and this c...PK, you've always been a treasure here, and this confession in public was not at all what I would have expected, to your credit. I know how hard this was, and is, for you, really I do.<BR/><BR/>Indeed I am indebted to you in so many ways, for so many things. But most important of all, for bringing Cassie, my cyber-mom, into my life for a time.<BR/><BR/> As to everything that's gone on these past few days, I am truly, deeply sorrier than anyone here will ever know.<BR/><BR/> Lots of people have been hurt and this hasn't been about anyone being made to look bad, or about me trying to somehow look good.<BR/><BR/> I have plenty of faults and have probably aired nearly all of them loudly on my own blog at different times. And I meant it when I said that I was ready to move past all of this, and by "move past," I don't mean that I will let it all sit in my head and fester.<BR/><BR/> This is NOT how I would have seen things working out, all the way around, not at all... and I truly have mixed feelings about it.<BR/><BR/> But, I do believe the housecleaning has been done all around and, if we all allow it and just let it flow out of our hands into the wind, we can all move past this with a fresher, more honest, more complete perspective.<BR/><BR/> In case no one knows, I HATE confrontation more than anything else and I am just relieved that this is all over with. Time to move on, for Paul, for Jay, for you, for Cassie, for all of us!!!!<BR/><BR/> And maybe, if we are very, very lucky, this non-confrontational confrontation will have been a plus and not a minus in all our lives, at least in some respect.<BR/><BR/>TiggsTiggshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13547847355311812871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-51701729393983421832009-01-20T09:23:00.000-05:002009-01-20T09:23:00.000-05:00PK,I agree with Ronnie. It took a whole lot of cou...PK,<BR/><BR/>I agree with Ronnie. It took a whole lot of courage to come out and say what you just did. Maybe you didn't have to, and we all would have wondered about Cassie for a while (just like we did when Ceeci went private) then would have moved along.<BR/><BR/>But you chose to out yourself, and that was very brave. Whether you bring Cassie back or not is up to you. But please stay here as PK.<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>HermioneHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-38398319078664074582009-01-20T08:31:00.000-05:002009-01-20T08:31:00.000-05:00Please do not stop bloggingPlease do not stop bloggingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-67510814021722390022009-01-20T05:45:00.000-05:002009-01-20T05:45:00.000-05:00Dear PK, I have just read this. I am glad you deci...Dear PK, I have just read this. I am glad you decided to tell us all It must have been extremely hard, took a lot of courage. Thank you.<BR/><BR/>Before I started my blog I loved reading Cassie's space and her life with Tom even though I always thought she was how can I say - to good to be true something not quite real about her but so what, I enjoyed reading. I missed her when she left, after Bonnie she was the next blog I found, yes I was a lurker never commented. <BR/>You created a loving, lovely women and in a way glad if was you writing. I agree with the others why not bring her back. <BR/><BR/>No need to go anywhere PK just keep writing. You have been very kind to me and others and were with you.<BR/><BR/>Love & hugs PK.<BR/>Ronnie<BR/>xx<BR/><BR/>PS - I never thought you and Eva were twins.ronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-50673749914733385872009-01-20T04:51:00.000-05:002009-01-20T04:51:00.000-05:00Cassie's stories were ok. I liked them.It's not OK...Cassie's stories were ok. I liked them.<BR/>It's not OK however when contacts become more on a personel level like with Sara's friend to continue without telling who you really are, obvious without going into details. When someone askes your advice about DD you can't give him the impression that you are in your sixties and experienced in DD when matter of fact you're no more than a novice.<BR/>Concerning Paul, maybe he can tell us why he made up the fantasy of his beloved Mell. To know is to understand, isn't it ?johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13576420604075920340noreply@blogger.com