tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post4937865599763188920..comments2024-03-26T18:59:25.722-04:00Comments on New Beginnings: Outing myselfPKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-51204184096795804562007-11-26T20:55:00.000-05:002007-11-26T20:55:00.000-05:00Sounds like you got more out of answering her ques...Sounds like you got more out of answering her questions than she did. That's what we've found too. Explaining erotic and playful spankings to a non-spanking usually isn't too difficult. But DD spankings, that's another story. In fact, we usually just skip right over that part when it comes to talking about spanking with a vanilla friend. The response is typically just too unfriendly.<BR/><BR/>Of course, there are some we've told. Suzy's Mom had about the same response your sister did.<BR/><BR/>:)<BR/>Todd & SuzyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-18591188956640033082007-11-25T19:34:00.001-05:002007-11-25T19:34:00.001-05:00Carye,My sister and I are not close in every way b...Carye,<BR/>My sister and I are not close in every way but I do trust her. She was in charge of getting rid of our toy box even before she knew what was in it.<BR/><BR/>Lilly,<BR/>I would love to know how you came out to your mom and what her first reaction was!<BR/><BR/>David,<BR/>I wondered how it would work with two smart young men living with you. Sometimes I wonder what Mollie might know or suspect.<BR/><BR/>Paul,<BR/>I really think my sister is very insecure and terrified at the thoughs of ever giving up any control.<BR/><BR/>Mthc,<BR/>Both our kids know we are much closer than we used to be. LJ thinks it's great. Mollie would prefer that we never touch!<BR/><BR/>Purple,<BR/>This is such an important meaningful part of my life now. I feel like there are two other friends who I could safely tell but I probably won't. I am sure that one other couple we are friends with are spankos. There are hints and nudges when we are together but none of us have admitted it yet. But I know!!PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-57190250164687214182007-11-25T18:16:00.000-05:002007-11-25T18:16:00.000-05:00Wow, good for you! That is excellent. It has bee...Wow, good for you! That is excellent. It has been hard for me to out to anyone. I tried with my best friend. We have been friends for over thirty years. At first she just thought I meant a kind of foreplay thing. When she realized that I was talking about a different lifestyle she became quite upset. Actually it came close to breaking up our friendship which would have broken my heart. She just couldn't get her head around what I was telling her.<BR/>So we agreed that we had gone over thirty years not discussing it, we could continue not discussing it. We certainly find many other things to talk about constantly.<BR/>I have "outed" to my ex husband, who is gay, my case worker who was totally accepting and non judgemental and a friend who has real curiousity about it.<BR/>So I am cautious about telling and I so admire you for telling your sister.<BR/>It must feel wonderful, personally I feel better when I am not having to keep such things from those close to me.<BR/>Hugs,<BR/>Purple AngelPurple Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13672310453326908221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-44580375741729815472007-11-25T17:37:00.000-05:002007-11-25T17:37:00.000-05:00The boys know as David says. They think it's kinky...The boys know as David says. They think it's kinky and we're have too much sex.(LOL) but mostly they think we're too old!mthchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10337700677733209175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-85484706324300929772007-11-25T10:48:00.000-05:002007-11-25T10:48:00.000-05:00Well good for you, PK. It must feel like a bit of...Well good for you, PK. It must feel like a bit of weight lifted. <BR/>I'm glad you were able to talk to her about it.<BR/><BR/>Debbie :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-27337074637478420652007-11-25T07:08:00.000-05:002007-11-25T07:08:00.000-05:00PK, great post, I suspect that a feminist might ha...PK, great post, I suspect that a feminist might have problems understanding our lifestyle, but--.<BR/>I'm pretty sure that SIL and and her eldest know and I know my housekeeper knows, doesn't bother me. They all knew what Mel means to me.<BR/>Love and warm hugs,<BR/>Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-17510987071065187972007-11-25T05:48:00.000-05:002007-11-25T05:48:00.000-05:00Bot our boys know now. Friday Scott was at the bed...Bot our boys know now. Friday Scott was at the bedroom door listening and thought we were wrapping Xmas presents but our spanking was over and I was just holding her in mr arms.<BR/><BR/>*hugs and grins*davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222836369199038788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-87588304771943977342007-11-25T05:39:00.000-05:002007-11-25T05:39:00.000-05:00GAH! I meant "censor" not sensor... LillyGAH! I meant "censor" not sensor... LillyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-85026742052981971412007-11-25T05:38:00.000-05:002007-11-25T05:38:00.000-05:00Good for you, PK! It not only isn't the end of the...Good for you, PK! It not only isn't the end of the world... you don't have to so fully sensor what you say to your sis - even if she doesn't understand it all!<BR/><BR/>It's a long story, but my mother knows, and is the person designated to get rid of our toy box if needed! I do have to say - other than a discussion or two - we don't talk about it, but she knows I'm in a very loving relatiohsip - she can see that!<BR/><BR/>I also have a friend who knows. She didn't understand the D/d aspect at first, but after seeing how happy and loving we are - well - she figured it had to be some kind of good thing! And as a side benefit, she shared her own interest (erotic) with her guy! <BR/><BR/>We really are everywhere - LOL! LillyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-71064259337798915672007-11-24T22:51:00.000-05:002007-11-24T22:51:00.000-05:00Wow! How cool is that that you told your sister!!!...Wow! How cool is that that you told your sister!!! Too cool!!!!<BR/><BR/>CaryeCaryagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18283871229312401932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-15177887356509505812007-11-24T21:25:00.000-05:002007-11-24T21:25:00.000-05:00Theresa,If vanilla's knew just how wonderful it wa...Theresa,<BR/>If vanilla's knew just how wonderful it was and how happy we are they would all be jealous!<BR/><BR/>Twin,<BR/>You are right maybe its best that we don't knew what they know!<BR/><BR/>Sara,<BR/>That is what I have realized really no one but another spanko would understand. Everyone else thinks its just a litte slap and tickle!<BR/><BR/>Danielle,<BR/>My guess is that she doesn't but that might be good.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-90671543822779287542007-11-24T16:37:00.000-05:002007-11-24T16:37:00.000-05:00I've told my sister and sometimes she is joking ab...I've told my sister and sometimes she is joking about me when she sends an sms. If she really understands the concept I don't know.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18345529114543953665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-66651867910996604082007-11-24T16:22:00.000-05:002007-11-24T16:22:00.000-05:00Really interesting PK. I suspect my teens know som...Really interesting PK. I suspect my teens know something...maybe (hope not!). I KNOW our housekeeper has found a stray implement on more than one occasion. While it was a big deal to me, she never seemed phased. I suspect you are right, that those on the outside have no clue as to what might be involved.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-65462044025315365032007-11-24T12:39:00.000-05:002007-11-24T12:39:00.000-05:00Sometimes I think my kids know... like the other d...Sometimes I think my kids know... like the other day Adam smacked my butt in front of them and there comments were "save it for when you're alone" and other such things... then they laughed cuz I was turning 20 shades of red. And then my son in law said something and my daughter shot him a look which makes me wonder about THEM!! I mean she is her mother's daughter, yes? I dunno. Somehow it feels safer when everyone's wondering!! LOL <BR/><BR/>Nice post, Twin... <BR/><BR/>Hugs~<BR/>EvaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-37628650789685347302007-11-24T11:51:00.000-05:002007-11-24T11:51:00.000-05:00I came out to a good friend years ago. She could n...I came out to a good friend years ago. She could not understand why I dated men who lived far away. Hey I wanted to find a local spanko, but just couldn't.<BR/><BR/>She didn't totally get it either at first. But she does now. I even think she is jealous since she is vanilla!<BR/><BR/>Glad you did it. So how does it feel now?<BR/><BR/>Huggs<BR/>TheresaTheresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04955725003787142974noreply@blogger.com