tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post2870416926258482488..comments2024-03-26T18:59:25.722-04:00Comments on New Beginnings: The first email about spankingPKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-30997224486516611502009-02-14T00:42:00.000-05:002009-02-14T00:42:00.000-05:00PK, thanks for sharing this with us. It is heartw...PK, thanks for sharing this with us. It is heartwarming to read of those first tentative steps and where they lead you.<BR/><BR/>Hugs<BR/>MinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-49940965597750640932009-02-12T00:21:00.000-05:002009-02-12T00:21:00.000-05:00PK,I smiled all the way through reading. Thanks s...PK,<BR/><BR/>I smiled all the way through reading. Thanks so much for sharing. I remember the first time I asked hubby just to hold my hands over my head while making love. It took me another 10 for ask for spanking!! I appreciate how brave it was for you. And I love how wonderfully you explained how he felt in your fantasy. Hmmm nothing like that calm alpha male whose goal is to keep you on track. <BR/><BR/>CeeCi, you beat me to it! I'd love to see a bumper sticker out there "especially my etc." it's a perfect line even if you don't know its origin.<BR/><BR/>KayLynnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-39930885697277044062009-02-11T22:08:00.000-05:002009-02-11T22:08:00.000-05:00M:e,Yes it was a gift to us both. And this gift j...M:e,<BR/>Yes it was a gift to us both. And this gift just keeps on giving.<BR/><BR/>Thanks Ronnie, Mollie is doing alright. <BR/><BR/>I think it's still easier to communicate with Nick by email when I have something important to tell him. <BR/><BR/>AG,<BR/>The people I have met here also helped me become comfortable with myself. I am so happy you are feeling comfortable too.<BR/><BR/>We had fun being 'other' people at first. It was even better the second time around when we were more ourselves.<BR/><BR/>YaYa,<BR/>I think we have a lot in common and I think our husbands are similar too. Nick certainly had the 'you don't hit girls' feelings. He did it for me, even when he was unconfortable he did it because he realized I was serious about wanting it. Glad that he is really with the program now!!<BR/><BR/>Terps,<BR/>Just remember that you will be married a long time. Spanking is not easy when you have little ones but even if it is not there yet you have shared yourself and made such improvements in your marriage.<BR/><BR/>Now as for the anal erotic I agree with CeeCi I think that often goes hand and hand with spanking. Don't be afraid to begin exploring.<BR/><BR/>CeeCi,<BR/>I got so very lucky! Nick stuck with me for a long time when we were not connected at all but was so opened to the change. <BR/><BR/>He is funny. He told me that after that first email he had a hard on for a week! LOL!PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-3502474642163762492009-02-11T18:32:00.000-05:002009-02-11T18:32:00.000-05:00"Yes you've aroused my curiosity, etc. Especially ..."Yes you've aroused my curiosity, etc. Especially my etc."<BR/><BR/>Oh that Nick, what a great sense of humor he has!<BR/><BR/>It took becoming single to finally come out of my sexless shell. It's so cool that you were able to do it with someone who loves you and has known you for such a long time.<BR/><BR/>And yeah, um, anal erotic... WooHoo, me too!! I think it rather goes hand in hand with the other stuff we enjoy.<BR/><BR/>*hugs*<BR/>CeeCiCeeCihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00379014051773420063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-76919083655538389132009-02-11T15:56:00.000-05:002009-02-11T15:56:00.000-05:00This is so wonderful. I love hearing about your re...This is so wonderful. I love hearing about your relationship and so fun to hear about your beginnings. Communication is so important and can only make the bond stronger. In my own relationship we are still in a phase of going two steps forward one step back...I sometimes think it is the timing of sharing my secret when we have two little ones that occupy our every time and thought; however, I am still so glad I shared. We have grown closer and I fell in love all over. We still have to keep working at it as we often relapse into what we were (which was great - its just that now it is better.) I discovered that not only do I enjoy the connection and intimacy of making love...I enjoy SEX. There I said it. (Still afraid to admit that I think I am anally erotic) Anyway sorry for babbling on and on... I guess I just wanted to share to say thank-you because you and your stories of your relationship inspire me. So thanks for sharing. Hugs! :-)Terpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-33478726551226811732009-02-11T13:48:00.000-05:002009-02-11T13:48:00.000-05:00"no woman in her right mind, even me, would allow ..."no woman in her right mind, even me, would allow her husband to hit her at all"<BR/><BR/>I new from an early age that spankings interested me, but it took me along time to ever say anything to my husband because I had the same mindset as what you said. The whole a real man doesn't hit a woman thing was taught at a young age. It took awhile to realise there is a BIG difference in abuse and spanking in a conseual relationship. And at the begining of our spanking realationship he was reluctant to try it for the same reasons, but once he saw the benefits from it he was more than willing to continue.<BR/><BR/>Sorry to ramble<BR/>YaYaYaYahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07676959936250681231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-19320789585300328532009-02-11T09:50:00.000-05:002009-02-11T09:50:00.000-05:00Hi PK:Everytime I read a post of yours, I have suc...Hi PK:<BR/>Everytime I read a post of yours, I have such a feeling of gratitude for having "met" you.<BR/>You have such a gracious and loving way of communicating, your e-mail to your husband was so caring and creative, and you even so graciously left him a way out if he was so inclined. Your idea of a fantasy couple was a great idea for some one to ease into the spanko world.<BR/>Your husband was so excited to get these e-mails from you...that must have been so much fun. I loved reading his e-mail to you. I hope that you share more of your "Beginning" journey with your husband.<BR/>Take care<BR/>AGAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-9171833165277155232009-02-11T07:12:00.000-05:002009-02-11T07:12:00.000-05:00How's Mollie today PK?Communication can be so hard...How's Mollie today PK?<BR/><BR/>Communication can be so hard but <BR/>that was an inspiration to write to Nick and very happy that it worked out so well for both of you.<BR/>I am so glad you shared this with us PK.<BR/><BR/>Thank you.<BR/>Ronnie<BR/>xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-85272334771545039472009-02-11T03:17:00.000-05:002009-02-11T03:17:00.000-05:00Thats always the key isn't it.....communciation. ...Thats always the key isn't it.....communciation. Finding and giving Nick that key was the most amazing present you could ever have given you both.<BR/><BR/>love and hugs xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com