tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post1823466172267713024..comments2024-03-26T18:59:25.722-04:00Comments on New Beginnings: More Thoughts on SubmissionPKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-80072945496587104012012-12-17T22:49:09.600-05:002012-12-17T22:49:09.600-05:00Bas,
Honestly I think I learned something from wri...Bas,<br />Honestly I think I learned something from writing this. Nick and I do try to be nice to each other. We’re still polite to each other, saying ‘please’ and ‘thank-you’. I know some couples that just don’t.<br /><br />Paul,<br />You said it, we’re happy. That’s all that counts.<br /><br />Abby,<br />I love my fantasies, but not as much as my real life.<br /><br />Sunny,<br />I’ve always felt that our marriages had to be pretty similar. We’re lucky.<br /><br />Minelle,<br />Listening is so important, most of the time I do – not always I’m afraid.<br /><br />Princess,<br />Come by anytime. Maybe we can get to know one another.<br /><br />Patty,<br />I loved my birthday. I have never once minded a birthday, age really doesn’t bother me at all.<br /><br />Kiwi,<br />We do try to please each other. And that’s not submissive, I think it’s just love.<br /><br />Roz,<br />I’m glad we all realize that ttwd comes in many, many different shapes and sizes and that we can all still get along.<br /><br />Ami,<br />Thanks for the birthday wishes! I used to like tiny bathing suits – had one for our honeymoon, but as the pounds crept on that was no longer an option. I’d like the weight gone for health reasons more that looks – but I would look better.<br />PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-11059536559466291922012-12-17T16:15:48.565-05:002012-12-17T16:15:48.565-05:00Hi Pk, you really got me thinking. After I had wr...Hi Pk, you really got me thinking. After I had written my comments to Lillie I worried about them. Then I went to check my own swimsuits. It's strange but I found I had several that were very conservative. Yet I also wear bikinis that are very brief when we are away in very hot climes. Starman isn't worried so long as I am happy. Yes, I wish that I looked like a supermodel every now and again, but mostly I'm happy in my own skin. From what I can see everyone has a slightly different approach to this lifestyle. And that's good because as Roz above has said, submission comes in many different guises.<br /><br />A very happy birthday and many more of them!<br /><br />Hugs, AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-55925391392602356092012-12-17T06:44:55.450-05:002012-12-17T06:44:55.450-05:00Hi PK, I echo what the others have said. Each cou...Hi PK, I echo what the others have said. Each couple needs to work out what works for them and makes them happy. Submission does come in many different forms.<br /><br />Hugs<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-41318231341725037382012-12-17T04:35:46.334-05:002012-12-17T04:35:46.334-05:00one size doesnt fit all does it. Each couple to t...one size doesnt fit all does it. Each couple to their own, and we work ttwd to suit ourselves - whatever works and makes us happy :)and thats how it should be. And i think submission comes in all shapes and sizes and diffent guises. A person might not be actively "submissive" to her/his spouse BUT does that person go out of his/her way to displease his/her spouse - no - because they want to please and make hi/her spouses happy - is that not being submissive?<br />hugs kiwi xxkiwigirliegirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07875041768284887283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-35463666844441784012012-12-16T21:35:54.194-05:002012-12-16T21:35:54.194-05:00Sorry that I missed your birthday. Congratulations...Sorry that I missed your birthday. Congratulations! Treat every B.Day as a gift (considering the alternative, they are very special).Pattynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-57000445127960937682012-12-16T18:35:59.619-05:002012-12-16T18:35:59.619-05:00I have a blog about this www.1950princess.blogspot...I have a blog about this www.1950princess.blogspot.co.uk<br /><br />Princess xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02303349062597645832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-50809234873275836932012-12-16T18:07:39.116-05:002012-12-16T18:07:39.116-05:00I do think the most important thing is to listen t...I do think the most important thing is to listen to what matters to each other. Recently my husband talked about something and I worried I had inadvertently upset him with my actions. I wouldn't want that. To me that is what is important.Minielle Labraunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206283897752166320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-13864609978387357602012-12-16T09:46:30.078-05:002012-12-16T09:46:30.078-05:00PK Your last paragraph is hubby and I. We live b...PK Your last paragraph is hubby and I. We live by the Golden Rule and therefore no other rules are necessary. The rest of the stuff is just that stuff.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-57560259548026121662012-12-16T09:04:57.024-05:002012-12-16T09:04:57.024-05:00"just us".....that is the ultimate reall..."just us".....that is the ultimate really. Your lifestyle, should fit the two of you....it should be about just us! Oh fantasies are great...but they are fantasies!<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208861579579989418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-39474197110729859032012-12-16T06:43:42.116-05:002012-12-16T06:43:42.116-05:00PK,
you both live the lives that suit you, you hav...PK,<br />you both live the lives that suit you, you have done it for thirty years.<br />I can only echo Bas, does it matter.<br />Love and warm hugs,<br />Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31522777.post-86034573901994659162012-12-16T03:27:59.546-05:002012-12-16T03:27:59.546-05:00Depending on each other / submitting to each other...Depending on each other / submitting to each other. What's the difference.<br />You fulfil each others wishes whether the other tells you about it or not. That's because you put the other's happiness before your own happiness.<br />When he gives you a spanking, because you like him to do that, who is submissive? Does it matter?<br />When you reckon with his wishes, when you buy a swimsuit, is that submission or are you just plain nice to your husband? Does it matter?<br />Only good can come from listening to each others wishes.<br />Maybe during all those years your secret submission wish was just a secret wish to be nice to Nick. Does it matter?Bashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15378333708912059004noreply@blogger.com