We have been having some fine times that I haven’t had the chance to tell you about yet. Now we haven’t been wild and crazy we have actually been more calm and loving. It’s the book I tell you, Tantric Secrets for Men , it has some fine ideas. One idea we have tried is the ‘morning devotion’. It is just a short time each morning when we ‘connect’. It is not a time when we are either worried about reaching a climax, its more about touching, muscle control, sharing energy – I don’t know exactly how to explain it, but it’s nice. I have to almost laugh when I think that only a few years ago I would not have liked this. But I really do like it. We are not fanatical, if we miss a morning that’s okay but we have only missed one day since we started almost 2 weeks ago. It is a different thing for us and this is one time I believe change is good.
Last Sunday afternoon we did manage to get some time alone while Mollie was at a party. It had been a while since we had had a long afternoon and we did make the most of it. We hadn’t even gotten to try our new Karma Sutra oil. He got out my favorite paddle the OCW, I just love that thing!! I would have enjoyed a longer spanking. A long slow warm up is always fun. I love the spanking because it sets the stage for me; it gets my juices flowing so to speak. I feel safe and cared for and centered after a spanking. Now the events that followed couldn’t have been better!
Yes, I found out that the oil is wonderful for blowjobs but let me tell you that first he showed me how nice it was when he used them on me! VERY nice! I was cuffed to the bed and he told me I was his until he decided to let me go! He let me play with lots of our toys. The plug and the vibrator are two of my favorites! I thought the spanking part was over once I was cuffed to the bed but actually you can be rolled pretty far to the side and get a few whaps in. Not to mention the diaper position, owwww!
It was a wonderful afternoon! Nick did everything for me a man can do for his lady and then I hope I was able to return some of the favor to him. I will add my vote that the oil is a wonderful thing!
When I first came out to Nick and we started TTWD my biggest fear was that it was too good to be true and that as exciting as it was in the beginning, it just couldn’t last. I NEVER thought it would last. I was just thrilled to have it for a little while. But it did last! I no longer think of it as an amazing anomaly. It is a change we have chosen for our lives and we are both very, very happy with this change. I give Nick most of the credit but I have to thank you guys too. I thank everyone who has blogged, everyone who has commented, everyone who has emailed me and everyone who has read here. I wonder if these wonderful changes would have been able to take hold without the ability to talk with other like me. I know we encourage each other to try new things and we are a sounding board for each other on every topic. This community means the world to me and I thank each and every one of you!